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want you to be able to extend your orgasm so that it can be initiated at the beginning, the start, the commencement of the sensual experience. The abil- ity to sustain an orgasm and the ability to feel orgasmic pleasure from the be- ginning are interrelated. To sustain the orgasm one has to be focused in the present moment, just as one has to be focused in the present moment to feel the first stroke.
The focus of this book is on the beginning, on that first stroke, on our abil- ity as human beings to be present to a heck of a lot more pleasure than we have been led to believe we could experience. Subsequently, each stroke that comes after the first can be experienced with the same grand attention and apprecia- tion, which is one of the key issues we will discuss. We will also delve deeper than ever before into how to keep the orgasm going. So even if you have read our earlier books on extended massive orgasm, there is additional informa- tion here to help you perfect your skills.
How, then, do we go about getting this instant orgasm? We read this book and say, “Wow, that would be great.” We believe—we have faith—that it is possible. We practice, and we prioritize pleasure. We enjoy and savor every step.
     
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We would like for people to eventually consider changing the name of “in- stant orgasm” to simply “orgasm.” Then the old kind of orgasm can be called just that—“the old kind of orgasm” (which we also affectionately refer to as a “crotch sneeze”). Why do this? We believe that you do not have to give up hav- ing the crotch-sneeze type of orgasm; we only suggest adding this new kind of pleasure to your repertoire. We call it a “crotch sneeze” more to get your at- tention than to demean it. It is comparable to a sneeze because it is over so
quickly, but of course it can be very enjoyable. We also believe that when you practice this newer way of being orgasmic—that is, when you are instantly orgasmic and then experience wave after wave of orgasmic sensation—you will tend to prefer it, and you may or may not want to experience the old kind of orgasm any longer. However, the option will always be available. The phenomenon we’re describing is analogous to the replacement of tube televi- sions with the high-definition, flat-screen variety. The picture is much more intense, and after a while the old TV may seem inferior—though it may be fun to see a black-and-white show once in a while. One day we will not have to use the adjective “HD” to describe TVs, just like we won’t have to describe an or- gasm as “extended massive” or “instant.” It will simply be an “orgasm.”
Language is likely the most important reason for our success as a species. Early on, it enabled us to hunt and gather food as a team, and to pass on knowl- edge that we gained through experiences. We do not have to go back to square one with each new generation; rather, through spoken and written language we can pass down many of our ideas and discoveries. However, when we have sex or create pleasure with someone, we are conditioned by our society to do it in the dark, using as little language as possible. Chapter 3 presents ways to talk with your partner that will enhance the experience.
     
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Webster’s defines “orgasm” as the climax of sexual tension, and this is the way most people understand the phenomenon. This definition means that you have to reach some threshold in order to have an orgasm. It also means that
orgasm lasts for a very short time—a few seconds—and then ends. What if this concept itself is what is stopping us from experiencing a much fuller or- gasm—waves of sensation that begin with the first stroke or even before, and last until the final stroke or even after?
What if our natural state is to be in orgasm all the time, and it is only when we move our attention to some other function or task that we do not experi- ence these sensual feelings?