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become that much more enjoyable.
The ability to be instantly orgasmic, especially for women, actually frees up a person’s time and thoughts. One no longer has to be concerned about their sexual aptitude, as they have already passed the test. This does not mean that one’s capacity for pleasure will not grow or get better, but it does signify that the tiger is no longer being swung by its tail. Now the tail is being moved when and if the tiger so desires. This is very freeing to women who have been kept in the dark for so long about their sexual aptitude and fulfillment. Once a woman knows she can get off whenever and for however long she desires, there is no further need for her to be concerned about her orgasmic ability. She can focus her energy and creativity on other endeavors without entertain- ing this nagging doubt. And when a man learns how to produce this pleasure for a woman, he is also freed. He becomes more confident and self-assured and can concentrate on other things, again without any doubt about his sex- ual skills nagging at him and blurring his focus.
Y Women and Men Differ in Response Z
We teach a class called the DEMO, which stands for Demonstration of an Ex- tended Massive Orgasm. In it we demonstrate a manually induced, hour-long orgasm on a woman. This live presentation is given in front of a mixed audi- ence of men and women. Everyone can see the woman’s intense orgasm, and many students are even allowed to come to the front of the room so they can touch her leg or stomach. Many of the women in the class can feel orgasmic sensations in their own genitals while they view the demonstration. They re- port getting wet and having contractions (i.e., being orgasmic) without any genital contact. Although the men can observe the sensations that are occur- ring in the woman demonstrator, their bodies do not respond in the same manner as those of the female students.
As mentioned, we believe that women are the source of turn-on, and that a heterosexual man can and will respond to a woman who is using her turn- on to stimulate him via her thoughts, pheromones, or whatever (the actual means have not yet been scientifically determined). The men in our classes who are in a room of turned-on women are not yet turned on themselves as there is no female energy directed specifically at them. The women in the room turn themselves on; this is one of the innate functions they possess that men lack. On occasion, a woman, sometimes one of the teachers but usually one of the students, will have a sexual thought or fantasy about a man or men in general, and many of the men (and also most of the women) will feel this as pleasure in their genitals, usually in the form of erectile activity in their pe- nises. Women are therefore the source of pleasure for themselves and for men, and sometimes for other women.
Although women seem to have a greater capacity for self-created plea- sure and for influencing men to think about pleasure, this in no way means that men must wait for the influence of some feminine charm before they can experience pleasure. A man can have a wet dream without any penile stimu- lation. He can fantasize, through either thoughts or pictures. He can touch himself and feel pleasure. The amount of pleasure he can experience on the first stroke depends on how much attention he’s placing on what he is feel- ing, and also upon what kind of expectations and views he entertains about
orgasm. Is he touching himself in a relaxed way, or is he just doing it to relieve himself of sexual tension? When a woman turns her dial up and lasers it to- ward a man, he can feel very intense pleasure; we can call this an instant or- gasm. It is somewhat out of his control, yet his ability to focus on his pleasure can amplify her signals or dampen them if he remains unconscious of them.
So there seem to be some differences as well as some similarities between how men and women experience sensual pleasure, specifically instant or-