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you’re off to starring in your own urban legend. Carrots are right out—get the right tool for the job, such as a butt plug or a dildo safe for anal use.
    Â Â Â Â Â Â Â  Anal toys add sensation to anal sex fantasies. Some people may simply enjoy stimulation from their own finger, or the “threat” of insertion from a finger or small plug, sending whatever anal-sex scenario is running in their heads into overdrive. Anal beads can be inserted one at a time, left in, or pulled out slowly or quickly, depending on the fantasy. Or you can go further, becoming a fantasy “anal queen” (or anal slut), using increasingly bigger and bigger butt plugs to stimulate yourself while imagining a multitude of anal slaves servicing you in your love sling. Larger toys, used safely, can exacerbate the feeling of “violation,” and any penetration toy can be employed to enhance the fantasy of being taken by force, or being “used.” Butt plugs can also be inserted and left in place during other activities, for a variety of fantasies such as submission, slavery, and medical scenarios—or just to free up your hands to get the dildo into your mouth.
    Â Â Â Â Â Â Â  Masturbation sleeves for men add a whole new dimension of sensation to the usual one- or two-handed action. These sleeves come in a variety of shapes, thicknesses, materials, and colors—choose the one you find most appealing. Some might find the tiny fake buttholes on some of these toys creepy, while others mightfind them erotically interesting. Would that enhance your fantasy of having anal sex with a porn star? Give it a try. If tit-fucking is your fantasy du jour , semirealistic molded breasts might give your next session an edge. Either way, these toys are harmless. Using them doesn’t mean you want to have sex with a body part, or are somehow unable to have sex with the whole woman, they’re just toys for healthy adult sex play. Explore and enjoy your fantasies to the fullest—at the very least, you’ll experience a new sensation on your penis while you masturbate.
    Â Â Â Â Â Â Â  Sensation and S/M toys make your pleasure/pain fantasies much more real. Be sure to use caution and common sense when you play alone with pain, bondage, electricity, asphyxiation, or any toy that induces strong sensations. Little clamps and clips can be used safely to intensify pinching sensations, though keep in mind that they hurt much more when you take them off, as the blood rushes back to the previously clamped area. These items can be purchased in a sex toy or S/M boutique, a hardware store, or a stationery store. Test them on the soft flesh of your arm before you buy—looks can be deceiving, and they can hurt worse than they look. Be sure that the ends of your clips are encased in rubber, and don’t buy ones with teeth. Clips and clamps can be placed on the fleshy parts of the body: breasts, nipples, stomach, thighs, labia, skin of the penis and testicles, even lips and earlobes! Apply your clips according to your fantasy scenario, but don’t leave them on forlonger than your masturbation session.
    Some S/M scenarios are difficult and dangerous to simulate. While you may be able to flog yourself, putting yourself into bondage (handcuffs, ropes, restraints, silk scarves, and so on) is not at all recommended. Asphyxiation, while not uncommon as a fantasy, is extremely dangerous to attempt, especially alone, and all too often can be fatal. Electrical play leaves much room for error—lethal error—and should be done only by those experienced with electricity, or learned from an expert in electricity and S/M. Blindfolds are fine, as long as you will be safe without being able to see.
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    When you see a picture, watch a movie, read a story, or have an idea that really turns you on—as in: wet panties or stiffening cock—you’ve got a