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male-female relationships. The feelings you may be having are confusing, too: you might be intimidated by the situation, angry as hell about the double standard, and worrying that there is some reason for not going down on you that they’re keeping from you—perhaps you’ve done something wrong, or they find your body unattractive. You may even feel ashamed. In reality, their behavior is unfair. You’re getting the fuzzy end of the lollipop.
     
    Sex is all about reciprocation. You make your partner feel good, they make you feel great. Try asking them point blank why they won’t go down on you—it’s important enough to confront them, especially if your self-esteem is on the line. Tell them how important their answer is to you, and that you will hear them out. If they don’t want to talk about it, or are clearly not giving you a straight answer, then you’re going to have to let the subject go—and think seriously about changing the relationship. Cowardly or evasive behavior on the part of a lover is serious stuff, but remember that chances are good you’ll never know the real reason they aren’t coming clean with you on their feelings about cunnilingus. Don’t guess or imagine reasons that make you feel bad—instead, choose an explanation that suits you, such as “They obviously know that with one taste of me, they’d be hooked for life.”
     
    When your partner is reluctant to try cunnilingus but can talk openly about it, listen closely to their concerns and restate back to them what you’re hearing so you can communicate clearly, and with no misunderstanding. Talking openly about difficult intimate issues takes a lot of courage for both of you, but don’t avoid the subject because you’re afraid of what they might say. If the hard fact is that they don’t want to go down on you because they aren’t concerned with pleasing you sexually, then you need to know. If they are queasy about pussy, then you definitely need to know, because you have one, and it’s a very important part of you—a part of you that needs satisfaction as much as your partner’s penis or clitoris does. Should your partner confess to cleanliness worries or a lack of knowledge about pleasing you, then hand over this book right away and point out the sections on anatomy, smell and taste, and techniques. Perhaps they find adding a new sexual technique to their routine daunting; let them know that you won’t be judging them, and that you can both embark on cunnilingus as a playful experiment. There’s no reason your partner shouldn’t at least try to give you oral pleasure.
     
Working Late

BY ALISON TYLER
“Smooth,” Damon murmured, sliding two fingers under the waistband of my underpants and playing them over my naked pussy. He stroked the bare skin and then sank his fingers deep into my cunt, between my already wet lips. When I sighed, leaning back on my desk and gripping the edge of it with both hands, he got down on his knees on the floor, sliding my panties roughly to one side and dipping his tongue between my nether lips.

His tongue was rough, like an animal’s, and just the feel of it against my pussy brought me close to a climax. If he rubbed his tongue up and down over my clit like that just a few more times, I would collapse, my body shaking with decadent spasm after spasm. I shut my eyes and tried to keep myself still. I didn’t want to give in too soon, but he was making me crazy.

“You’re so fucking smooth—”

His words were muffled against my pussy, but I could hear what he said, and I would have understood the meaning even if I couldn’t. Some languages don’t need translating. This was obviously true for him, too. He understood the unspoken messages of my body. And just as I’d willed him to, he brought his tongue up and down, up and down, lapping over my clit and on either side of it, finding the sensitive areas that crave a gentle touch. I spread my legs as wide as they would go on the desk, my