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a circle of energy, you will be surprised: a new dimension has opened up; you start moving upward. Your life is no longer horizontal. It has taken a new route, the vertical.
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    EJACULATION IS NOT MALE ORGASM

    The general assumption is that male ejaculation is a man’s version of an orgasm. However, some men have discovered that ejaculation is definitely not a true orgasm. They have experienced that nature designed the genitals for elevated, or evolved, sexual experiences. They agree that ejaculation is an intense pleasure, but these few seconds cannot compare with the timeless, blissful, relaxing experience of orgasmic fusion. You find your body empowered, rejuvenated, and your spirits lifted.
    Physiologically it is possible for man to have an orgasm without ejaculating. However, a man can also ejaculate sometimes without experiencing any pleasurable sensations whatsoever. Orgasm and ejaculation can occur simultaneously, or they can be experienced independent of one another. For a man this means he is capable of a prolonged “valley” orgasm, or even multiple orgasms, without ejaculation.
    LOSS OF ENERGY AFTER EJACULATION
    It is well known that men usually, or perhaps always, experience loss of energy after ejaculation. Signs of energy loss occur as a negative type of relaxation that is the result of the unburdening of accumulated tensions from the system. Stimulation and movement are used to build up tension levels; the breath gets shorter and faster until the energy peaks into a climax. Accumulated tension is discharged downward and outward along with life-giving semen (in contrast to the energizing effects of orgasm without ejaculation, which keeps the energy in the body and sends it vertically up the spine).
    There are a number of ways in which the loss of energy after ejaculation manifests: a sense of separation, emptiness, loss of interest in the partner, irritability, tiredness, wanting to switch off, or falling asleep. There has been a depletion of energy, inducing a negative type of relaxation. The by-product of true relaxation is increased vitality and aliveness.
    A young man of twenty-five years attended our weeklong seminar for couples, during which he immediately started to avoid ejaculation and contain his energy. After several days of making love two or three times a day without ejaculation, he observed a distinctly different quality arising from his body and his being, as though he had entered a love paradise. He felt as high as a kite.
    Then, on the second to last afternoon he decided to have an ejaculation just to check it out and see how it would feel. He told us that from one second to the next he felt himself falling from heaven into hell. There was an instant evaporation of the positive, uplifting, inspiring inner force he had felt building up within himself during the previous days.
    Since that shattering experience he has been able to observe and identify certain emotional and physical states that accompany or follow his ejaculation. Here is the list he made:
An intense idleness spreads inside of me.
Contact with people becomes difficult for me. I do not feel like seeing people.
The front of my torso is extremely tense for the next two days.
My lower back is contracted.
My neck is tense.
My body is generally tense. There is no space in me, no mobility.
I am irritable.
I behave like a child that did not get enough sleep, even if I’ve slept a lot.
Even little things are often too much. If I have to do something, it often feels like an insurmountable obstacle.
My thoughts are racing
I doubt my profession, my relationship, my living space, and my life. Nothing seems as good as it is.
I lack serenity. I feel no joy. I am afraid that everything will get to be too much.
My eyes are blurred and my head feels foggy.
I do not want to look at my beloved any more, and I am hardly able to look at her. If I do it anyway, I do not see her clearly.
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