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even if she just lost a job or a guy didn’t call her. Instead of eating a box of cookies or getting drunk to drown her sorrows, she gets a manicure and pedicure and goes to a speed-dating party or updates her profile on JDate.com or Match.com .
    When in a relationship, a CUAO doesn’t act possessive. She doesn’t hang all over her guy in public. She lets him put his arm around her. She lets the guy be the pursuer; she doesn’t take that away from him. She lets him take the relationship to the next level, since she appreciates that he likes to make the first move, on every in every way. She knows to let him catch her!
    A CUAO isn’t needy. She gets attention by
not
trying to get attention. She doesn’t have to be loud or overly funny or super witty. She knows that just being in the room or being online is enough. Now that we’ve explained what a CUAO’s inner beauty is, let’s talk about how a CUAO should look, as men are visual and must feel a physical spark in order to pursue a woman.

Rule #2 ____________
Look Like a Creature Unlike Any Other
    I T MAY BE difficult to hear, but we would be lying if we said inner beauty is all that matters. As we have mentioned, most men are obsessed with looks. In other words, most men will not find out how wonderful you are on the inside if they don’t like your outsides. Men have a type. Heartthrob actor Leonardo DiCaprio has a weakness for tall, willowy blondes like Blake Lively, Bar Refaeli, and Gisele Bundchen. New York Yankees third baseman Alex Rodriguez favors cute blondes with killer bodies like Kate Hudson, Cameron Diaz, and Torrie Wilson. Dallas Cowboys quarterback Tony Romo also has a thing for beautiful blondes, having dated singers Carrie Underwood and Jessica Simpson before tying the knot with former Miss Missouri Candice Crawford. Tycoon Donald Trump likes tall, gorgeous, European-model types like first wife Ivana and current wife Melania. The point? It’s a waste of time to chase guys. You may not be their look, so no matter how wonderful you are, they won’t be interested.
    Rules
consultations include an assessment of a client’s looks, both for dates/events and for online dating website profile photos. Here are some general beauty guidelines we suggest:
Hair
Length and Style
    Most men prefer long, straight hair—below shoulder length. One of our personal hair stylists who worked at a top salon in New York City and has very high-profile clients did a survey of the men whose hair she cuts.
All
said they loved long, straight hair on women. It’s simply the most feminine! Anything above the neck or chin tends to be masculine-looking. We tell clients to grow their hair long or even to get hair extensions. Some women argue, saying that their hair is too thin to wear long or that it’s more work to wash and dry long hair. Our answer is, just try it! Others argue that hair extensions are too expensive, but we remind them that they had no problem dropping $500 on airfare to fly to visit their last boyfriend. See how you look! Also, curly dos can look messy, while long, stick-straight hair looks more like one of those luscious shampoo ads. We tell women with naturally curly waves to blow their hair out straight or use a flatiron.
Color
    We often tell women who feel blah with brown hair to try highlights or to go blond. A lighter shade really seems to perk them up. Premature gray hair should be colored immediately, as nothing makes you look or feel older than being silver! Hair is one of the first features a man notices about a woman and should not be ignored or skimped on!
Makeup
    Makeup can be tricky for some women. They either look pale and unfinished or, conversely, they wear too much and look flashy. Neither is flattering. We tell most of our clients to go to the makeup counter of their favorite brand at a local department store and ask for a day look and a night look, as well as instructions on how to re-create both themselves. While many women have their own