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throw themselves into the act of primping, a form of body worship that begins at a young age. That’s a very good starting point for men. Bathe her, wash her hair, paint her toenails, put her make-up on her. Shave her. These are all very intimate acts that tend to revive the girl in the woman.
    If your partner is experimental and lets you have a say in her body hair, and if you can’t decide whether you want her armpits shaven or not, be bold. Have her shave one and grow the other of her charm pits. A woman would object, but the girl in her would smile gratefully at the idea.
“If you men are seeking complete hairlessness, then there is a product designed specially for men, called Golden Balls, available in gay shops in England.... But even if you star in a world-class porn movie, it is still considered perfectly acceptable to have a hairy scrotum.”
—Xaviera Hollander, Penthouse Letters , September 1998
    I have shaved my pussy on many occasions and found that it made me feel like a very horny virgin. And though I have never met a man who didn’t adore it, women often object on the very valid grounds that it is a bitch to maintain. In the last decade, however, the pharmacies have started stocking a wide array of shaving tools for men and women, for tender areas and for not so tender areas. The best for private parts, in my opinion, is Schick’s new razor with the soap around it, called “Intuition.” It’s a wonderful little gadget that has the razor built into a square of soap. Years ago I would tell the men, “give her a break, it’s not an easy thing to maintain.” Now I tell them, if you want her completely bald, then participate in the maintenance, make it fun, and use the right tools.
    In fact, you should make a game out of shaving each other. It can be great fun. Even if you are using a razor with the soap around it, don’t skip the part about lathering up your partner as a prelude to the actual act. Do it in the bathtub, with you sitting and her standing. Be sure to reach back and get the hair between the front equipment and the ass. Make it more of a game by trying to get rid of all of your own body hair as well, and experiencing complete baldness. A small penis will look much larger with the hair gone and a bald vagina always looks young and innocent. In addition, both partners will experience a totally new feeling of excitement, especially right after being shaved, since the pubic area becomes almost twice as sensitive and even the slightest rubbing of underpants or jeans can arouse you.

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DO INSIST SHE SLEEPS NAKED

Women aren’t the only ones who are bashful about their bodies, but most of the complaining letters I got over the years were from men who wondered why their wives wouldn’t sleep naked and actively avoided being seen naked. It’s all cultural conditioning and it can be undone over time. Personally, I have no tolerance for digging through night-clothes to get to my lover. I need easy access.
“One of the best lovers I ever had was always looking for opportunities to get out of his clothes.”
—Xaviera Hollander, Penthouse Letters , August 2003
    I once had an affair with a Canadian who started off wonderfully naked, but then began wearing a T-shirt to bed. Then one night when winter was setting in, I cuddled up to him to discover he was wearing socks, long johns and a woolly thermal shirt. That was enough for me and I told my lover he could sleep somewhere else because the winters are long, and getting him out of his woodsman gear would be too much effort. But this piece of advice is more about your success than my personal preferences and here’s why.
    First let me say that if you think that by insisting she sleep naked, you are cheating yourself out of sexy lingerie, you are wrong. Au contraire! The lingerie is necessary and fun, but make sure she understands that when she is under the covers with you, and it is time to sleep, the clothes come off.
    You will win on two counts if