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you insist she sleeps naked next to you and make it a rule from the beginning. Not only will you have easy access to her through the night, but women like the little game of tug-of-war now and again, and the more harmless the game, the more they like it. You are giving her something to wrangle with you about. You are appealing to her brain clit. If she has her nightgown on when she crawls into bed, you say, “What is the matter with you?” and she can then giggle and remove her clothes, or make you remove them yourself. She might tell you it’s too cold, clobber you with the pillow and run—in which case, you must chase her! Whatever the result, you are setting yourself up for some steamy sex.

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DO ENGAGE HER IN ‘DRESS-UP’ PLAY

A few years ago, G. Gordon Liddy was interviewed by an Atlanta radio station and when asked the secret to his successful marriage of over thirty years, he answered, “an active fantasy life.” If you want to fire up her imagination, if you want to stimulate her brain clit, get some costumes. Get some wigs if you have to. Be willing to don the wig and hook of a pirate. Be willing to be the chef or the police officer. Play different roles with her. She’ll say you are insane but her eyes and her actions will tell you that she adores you and she adores the effort you put into the game.
“According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful.”
—Robert De Niro
    An ex-lover of mine who was raised by British nannies once convinced me to put on the white apron (and nothing else) and simulate doing dishes so that he could get me from behind. Even though I initially resisted, it did lead to mind-blowing sex.
    Having intercourse with a nurse in uniform or a doctor of either sex in a white coat is a very common fantasy and fantasy is a great way to get the two of you to the end goal.
    I think that the feminist revolution has made most men (maybe just most American men), afraid to tell their partners that they would love to see them dressed in seamed black stockings and a French maid’s uniform, or in all black leather, or whatever it is he wants to see. The feminist revolution made being a sex object a bad thing—across the board. So the general male reluctance to elucidate what qualifies as an interesting sex object is understandable. It is a pity, because both men and women are losing as a result.
    My advice is that you buy her the clothes you want to see her in. Or at the very least, go shopping with her. And make sure she knows that you will dress in a manner that pleases her, as well. Be sure you don’t go on your buying spree before you understand the woman you are dealing with. After all, you don’t want to give her a collar if, in her mind, she is the one who is supposed to be collaring you.

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DO LEARN TO BE AN ACTOR

Putting on the costume won’t help if you can’t let go long enough to put on a little performance. You must get in tune with the actor in you; everyone has one, find yours. She will adore you for it.
    One friend of mine had a marvelous lover who could out-act anyone I know. While they were visiting New York City, he told her way in advance that there would be one night that they would separate and meet up in the hotel bar as if strangers. For the days preceding this hook-up, they were forced to avoid the hotel bar because neither wanted it ruined in any way when they finally met as strangers. They didn’t want the bartender or anyone in the bar to know they were together.
    On the night in question, he approached her at the bar and said, “Susan?” and she shook her head. She was not Susan and did not know this stranger-man. He explained that he had been stood up by his Internet date and that in fact my friend didn’t look anything like the woman he was supposed to meet, and struck up a conversation