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with her and pretended he was a business man with a wife and kids and corn back in Iowa.
    When he had her in his room, after they had sex one time and were catching their breath, he admitted to her that he’s not married at all, doesn’t have a wife or kids or corn, had never been to Iowa, but that he played basketball for some team and had three of his friends in another room waiting to gang bang her. His intent was to scare her. He was trying to present her brain clit with an element of danger. But it backfired because she one-upped him. When he told her sternly of his plans, she giggled and said, “Oh, hon, bring ’em on!”

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DO GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO “CHEAT”

I have heard many stories over the years from people who had discreet affairs and the carry over effect was “mind-blowing sex” with the partner at home. Understand that as women get older, their propensity to cheat increases exponentially. You should be mentally prepared for it.
    The current reverence for the MILF* is a case in point. It is so easy today, with the advent of Internet match-making portals, for a suburban mother with three kids and a husband to find “a little discreet sex on the side” (so easy it would amaze you). Young men and middle aged men alike are attracted to the MILF for a variety of reasons.
“ ... the world waited until the end of the nineteenth century A. D. for systematic investigation into feelings and passion.”
—Lewis, Amini, Lannon, A General Theory of Love
    Over the years I got many letters from young women starting like this: “Why is he fucking these older women when he could have hot, young me?” When women are young, there is so much urgency to sexual relationships that generally they will engage in sex for fifteen to twenty minutes in silence, except for a few grunts and moans. After orgasm, they bound out of bed and get on with doing something else. That’s typical of women in their early twenties.
    As women get older and the demands of small children and/or careers lighten up a bit, they begin to understand and appreciate the benefits of spending a whole afternoon in bed with a lover. They begin to relax and open up and by this point in life have gained the confidence to say, “I want to do this or that.”
    So, the reason why many women, as they get older, as the marriage gets older, cheat is the same reason men do: because they can. And today, thanks to wonderfully robust Internet dating portals, it’s not hard for those many under-thirties looking for Mrs. Robinson to find her; nor is it difficult for the married men who might be her age, but are also just looking for some sex on the side.
    Women cheat for the same reasons men do, to be reminded of their worth, to show to themselves that they are still desirable to other men. Sometimes women cheat just to experience the newness of a relationship and then they carry that glow home and have mind-blowing sex with their husbands. I know, I get their stories.
    For the mature and adventurous couple, you might pre-empt her need to cheat by offering to find and bring a third party home (a man). Another way to provide her with the thrill without actually having to suffer infidelity is to role-play a cheating scene. Have her “act out” to you a confession of cheating and you can make a big scene and perhaps give her the drama she is craving.
    *MILF is an Internet dating term used to describe hot women of child-rearing age—“Mothers I’d Like to Fuck.” 69

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DON’T BE AFRAID TO MAKE “MAKE-BELIEVE” DANGER

Sex is good, but not worth dying for. I’ve known people who have sex under very dangerous conditions and, instead, I strongly recommend you simply learn to act at the proper time. Fucking at the wheel is risky, and sucking your girlfriend’s nipples whilst peering through the windshield round her female form, however skinny, is definitely dangerous. If that’s what tickles her brain clit or yours, then pretend you are driving! Park in a