How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild) (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking) Read Online Free PDF Page B
Author: Ph.D. Barbara Keesling
partner is learning this to increase your pleasure and because he cares about you . You are the single most important motivation for his process. Period. But you are not a passive ob-server of his process, or a flexible love doll whose only purpose is to give your partner a female form on which to practice. You have a really important job here, and I mean that quite sincerely.
You can make or break these exercises for your partner because these are your exercises too. Your pleasure should never be compromised for his pleasure and your needs should never be compromised
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for his needs. The wonderful thing about learning these exercises is that it’s an incredibly sensual, exciting experience for both partners. If it isn’t, something is wrong, and you need to back up for a moment and consider where your experience got compromised.
Every man I teach says the same thing: the key ingredient to learning these exercises is an enthusiastic partner. A woman’s excitement is contagious. It is the biggest turn-on a man could ask for. As I’m sure you all know from experience, a passive partner is deadly in any erotic encounter, and this erotic exercise regimen is no exception. If the woman isn’t really excited about doing this with her partner, she shouldn’t be doing it. It’s that simple.
This is not one of those things you do for him, even though you really don’t want to. When it comes to sex, it never makes sense to do anything for him if you’re not enjoying it too.
There should never be any suffering in a sexual relationship; there should only be pleasure and passion. If that sounds trite, forgive me, but it’s true.
People who make big compromises in their sexual relationships are unhappy, and the relationship as a whole always suffers. That is something I do not want to encourage. I only want to make your relationship better, but I need your help and your trust to do it. If you honestly want to be a part of this exciting process, there is plenty for any woman to do.
But the very first thing you need to do is let yourself have a wonderful time. Don’t worry about him—he’ll take care of himself. Just make sure you are always getting the most out of every experience.
38 / BARBARA KEESLING, PH.D.
As you do each exercise, think about how you might benefit the most. Make creative suggestions if you wish, and bring your own personality into the process. He’ll love that.
If you are going to participate in these exercises, pay very close attention to your partner. Read through each exercise together before you begin so you know what to expect. Then try to really focus on your partner’s experience in addition to focusing on your own. Try to feel his arousal as it rises and falls. Move the way he moves. Breathe the way he breathes. When he opens his eyes, open your eyes. If he moans, moan with him. If he falls asleep…if he falls asleep, poke him. Communicate as much as possible during each exercise. If the two of you stay really connected, you are going to feel most of what he is going through, and it’s going to be incredible for you too . When two excited partners are deeply connected to each other, it makes for one hell of an amazing afternoon.
I need to ask you women one final favor. There are a few crucial moments in certain exercises when the man is instructed to stop moving. It is very important that the woman stop with him . Too much friction at the wrong moment might feel great, but it will probably end the exercise prematurely, if you know what I mean. I know it’s going to get pretty exciting, and I know that sometimes it’s really hard to suddenly stop what you are doing, but what you will quickly discover is that if you stop at the necessary moments, the payoff later on will be even bigger. So, keeping my one request in mind, go out there and have yourself a great time.
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How to Use the Rest of This Book
All of the exercises in
You can make or break these exercises for your partner because these are your exercises too. Your pleasure should never be compromised for his pleasure and your needs should never be compromised
HOW TO MAKE LOVE ALL NIGHT / 37
for his needs. The wonderful thing about learning these exercises is that it’s an incredibly sensual, exciting experience for both partners. If it isn’t, something is wrong, and you need to back up for a moment and consider where your experience got compromised.
Every man I teach says the same thing: the key ingredient to learning these exercises is an enthusiastic partner. A woman’s excitement is contagious. It is the biggest turn-on a man could ask for. As I’m sure you all know from experience, a passive partner is deadly in any erotic encounter, and this erotic exercise regimen is no exception. If the woman isn’t really excited about doing this with her partner, she shouldn’t be doing it. It’s that simple.
This is not one of those things you do for him, even though you really don’t want to. When it comes to sex, it never makes sense to do anything for him if you’re not enjoying it too.
There should never be any suffering in a sexual relationship; there should only be pleasure and passion. If that sounds trite, forgive me, but it’s true.
People who make big compromises in their sexual relationships are unhappy, and the relationship as a whole always suffers. That is something I do not want to encourage. I only want to make your relationship better, but I need your help and your trust to do it. If you honestly want to be a part of this exciting process, there is plenty for any woman to do.
But the very first thing you need to do is let yourself have a wonderful time. Don’t worry about him—he’ll take care of himself. Just make sure you are always getting the most out of every experience.
38 / BARBARA KEESLING, PH.D.
As you do each exercise, think about how you might benefit the most. Make creative suggestions if you wish, and bring your own personality into the process. He’ll love that.
If you are going to participate in these exercises, pay very close attention to your partner. Read through each exercise together before you begin so you know what to expect. Then try to really focus on your partner’s experience in addition to focusing on your own. Try to feel his arousal as it rises and falls. Move the way he moves. Breathe the way he breathes. When he opens his eyes, open your eyes. If he moans, moan with him. If he falls asleep…if he falls asleep, poke him. Communicate as much as possible during each exercise. If the two of you stay really connected, you are going to feel most of what he is going through, and it’s going to be incredible for you too . When two excited partners are deeply connected to each other, it makes for one hell of an amazing afternoon.
I need to ask you women one final favor. There are a few crucial moments in certain exercises when the man is instructed to stop moving. It is very important that the woman stop with him . Too much friction at the wrong moment might feel great, but it will probably end the exercise prematurely, if you know what I mean. I know it’s going to get pretty exciting, and I know that sometimes it’s really hard to suddenly stop what you are doing, but what you will quickly discover is that if you stop at the necessary moments, the payoff later on will be even bigger. So, keeping my one request in mind, go out there and have yourself a great time.
HOW TO MAKE LOVE ALL NIGHT / 39
How to Use the Rest of This Book
All of the exercises in
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