How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild) (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking) Read Online Free PDF Page A

the same thing. This conversation should not be taken lightly or given short shrift. A lot of changes are about to take place. Your attitude toward sex is about to change. Your attitude toward yourself is about to change. So are your abilities, your physiology, and your level of desire. Your partner has got a lot to reckon with.
    If these changes are not discussed in advance, your efforts could backfire. If you try to keep the whole thing a secret, your partner could feel very left out. She might get confused, or insecure, or even
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    angry. If she’s used to Old Faithful, any kind of radical change could be quite disconcerting. She might even fear that you are having an affair and learning things from some other woman.
    You are learning things from another woman, but this woman is a professional sex therapist whose only interest in you is that you learn techniques to enhance your relationship with your partner. The purpose of learning to become multiorgasmic is to bring you and your partner closer together. It is supposed to improve your relationship, not threaten it.
    You want your transformation to ignite your partner, not scare her. That’s why I want you two to have a conversation, and I want you to have it as soon as possible after you have finished reading this book for the first time.
    Talk to your partner. Tell her what you’re up to, and don’t withhold anything. Give her as much information as possible.
    Let her know why this is important to you. Tell her what your goals are, being sure to explain the benefits you can foresee for the relationship. It is very important that she knows you are doing this for both of you . Finally, tell her how important it is for you to have her support.
    Male Multiple Orgasm Should Bring a Couple Together Some women want to make love for hours at a time, whereas some are happiest when it’s short and simple. The typical woman has different needs and desires on different days.
    What about your partner? What does she like, what does she want, and how
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    might her needs vary from day to day and week to week?
    You need to know this information, and your conversation about embarking on this program is an ideal time to find out. Frankly, it’s the only way both of you will fully benefit from your newfound talents. Otherwise, you may be doing all kinds of things that your partner simply isn’t interested in.
    Don’t get me wrong. Your needs are important. But you must always remember that your partner’s needs are equally important. There is nothing more unpleasant than a man who is just doing his thing, oblivious to what the woman really wants. Being a great lover means more than just tuning into your own body. Being a great lover means tuning into your partner’s body too, and even more important, it means tuning into her mind.
    The beauty of being multiorgasmic is that it gives you the kind of sexual flexibility you’ve never experienced before.
    For the first time, you can get tremendous pleasure without sacrificing any of your partner’s needs. Your experience will be much more intense, but you’re also going to help make hers more intense. You’re doing wonderful things for yourself, but you also can attend to her in ways you never could before. No one has to make huge compromises or be shortchanged.
    I have heard women complain about insensitive men who seem uninterested in what a woman really needs or men who couldn’t go the distance. But I must tell you, I have never heard a woman complain about a man who could offer her whatever she desired.
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    probably even more important to talk about her needs. Let her tell you what she wants and what she doesn’t want. Does anything make her uncomfortable? Is there anything she fears? Listen carefully to her answers, and don’t assume anything.