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he’ll plan a romantic surprise. He is spontaneous, but clearly you’re his first priority—so this is harmless. You’re in good shape if he’s calling you all the time and wants to see a lot of you.
    What you want to guard against is going on last-minute dates or getting those last-minute calls to do something because he didn’t have anything better planned. Sometimes when a woman has feelings for a man, she can’t distinguish between the two.
     
T HE S PONTANEOUS G UY W HO I S T REATING Y OU L IKE A B ACKUP
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You don’t hear from him for two weeks at a time and then all of a sudden you get a phone call.

He makes dates ahead of time, and he also wants to see you spontaneously in between.
He prioritizes social engagements with his drinking buddies

His buddies complain that he fell off the face of the earth. They hassle him but he doesn’t seem to care.
He makes travel arrangements with friends and never asks you to accompany him.

He’s constantly asking you to take time off from work so you can get away together.
He’s irritable when he’s around you and frequently complains of not having more time to himself.

He’s happy to be in your company. His friends and family all think he looks happier than he’s ever looked.
He calls you to cancel plans for that evening. Later that night, you call right back and it goes directly to voice mail. Then he calls the following day with a good excuse

If he has to cancel, he feels badly about it. He calls you when he gets in from wherever he is because he has nothing to hide and he wants you to know he’s being totally “on the level.”
He won’t ever take you out or spend much money. He may ask you for a loan. Before you know it, you’re supporting the guy through college.

He’ll do anything just to see you smile
You make it known that you’re available on a weekend night. And even though he works during the week, he doesn’t make himself available to see you.

He almost always sees you whenever you have time, unless he has a professional commitment or there’s an important extenuating circumstance.
     
    A common example is the typical “booty call.” First, the guy waits to hear back from someone
else
before confirming whether he can see you. He’ll call at 5:00 and say he hasn’t showered yet and he’s on the way. At 7:00 he calls again and pulls the plug: “My friend Troy stopped by.” Then he says he’ll make it an early night with Troy and tells you he wants to get together afterward. He gets in late, and that’s when he offers to see you, providing you drive to his place.
    No matter how much you want to see him, don’t go. At this point, you want to
seriously
consider not ever seeing him again. If you do go, you won’t be more appealing to him; you’ll be turning the dimmer switch down on his attraction for you.
    A friend of mine named Crystal was in this exact situation and handled it perfectly. A man named Brett called her on a Saturday night; it was well after midnight and raining, and he asked her in a seductive tone of voice to drive to his place. A classic booty call. Crystal hadn’t heard from Brett in two weeks, since he’d indicated he wanted to “see other people.” He also lived 35 miles away from her at the time.
    Crystal said, “Okay, sweetie. I’m on my way. Give me five minutes to put on a garter belt under my raincoat. I’ll be there in forty minutes.” She also asked Brett to wait downstairs for her in the rain with an umbrella, so she wouldn’t get drenched walking to the front of his apartment complex. He waited and waited and waited. Three hours later, it occurred to him like a stunning revelation: No booty cometh.
    In the morning Crystal awoke to several messages from Brett. In one of them, he mentioned that he had come down with a severe case of the flu from standing in the rain. (Not her fault. He should have gotten his flu shot.)
    Again, the bitch is very nice. She is