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attractive to young women, because after my divorce I felt old and used up. But I was surprised at how well some of the young women responded to me.
    But about half of these young women were not having orgasms. I figured that the reason was because I was making love to them the same way I had been making love to my wife for many years. It worked while we were married, but it was not working on these one night stands. And it was not working like the phone sex thing was. It was because of the clumsiness of the one night stand, and the fact that it was reality, not fantasy. So I decided to incorporate more cerebral stuff, and I was going to learn some new sex techniques.
    I was on a mission. I was going to learn what it takes to be an amazing lover.
    But I was very disappointed in the sexuality books. They only talked about sexual positions, or they'd spend twenty pages just talking about how to lick the clit, or they'd require you to memorize the names of 200 East Indian Gods. Or worse, they’d talk about “Mars” and “Venus” and about “communication” which reeks of wimpyness. I am all for communication, and especially for emotional intimacy, but it must be in the context of respect. Your woman must have respect for you in order to take what you say seriously.
    In order that you give your woman mind blowing sex, you must command respect with her. You will be giving her commands to do things that stretch her existing boundaries. Thus, her respect for what you say must override her own self consciousness and self limiting beliefs.
    I tried some of the suggestions in the various books, which had various successes. Then I would try variations, and have better success. Then I figured I’d just start trying things of my own design.
    It all started to gel in 1993 when I was dating a 22 year old woman who had never had an orgasm. Nothing I did in the bedroom was bringing her close to an orgasm. So I just relaxed and just tried things to see how she would respond. That’s when I fell upon the deep spot and gave her her first orgasm. I will discuss the deep spot in detail in a few pages. And it worked amazingly well on other women who had never had an orgasm. And on other women, it would be something else I tried that would give her her first orgasm. Things really started to come together.
    Then I would give women their first orgasm in intercourse. Then I would give them their first multiple orgasm. It was like there was no limit to what could be done. And I knew I could make it so for most any woman I met.
    It got to the point where when I would be talking to a woman that I just met, I’d be thinking in the back of my mind: “She has no idea just how hard she is going to come for me. She has no idea how many times she is going to come for me. She has no idea just how sexual she is going to be for me.”
    Now let’s get into the sexual techniques. Let’s start at the beginning, with female anatomy.

Female Anatomy

    To begin, you must first know female anatomy.

    Side view of female anatomy

    Pelvic view of female anatomy

    The clitoris is rich with sensitive nerve endings. It is by far the most sensitive tissue of a woman’s sex organs. About 70% of women achieve orgasm from clitoral stimulation.
    The vagina is the next most sensitive. But the sensitivity of it varies within, some areas being more sensitive than others. Only about 30% of women achieve orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone.
    The bladder has a small sphincter muscle where it connects to the urethra, which tightens up when the person is aroused. Just like you can’t urinate when you have a raging boner, a woman can’t urinate when she is aroused. This point is important when we discuss female ejaculation.

Male Anatomy

    We are going to discuss male anatomy here because we will later make comparisons of it with female anatomy, for reasons that will become clear later.

    Side view of male anatomy

    At the time of arousal, the Cowper’s gland secretes a