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control." You already understand that it allows her to "let go" and get "slutty."
    All very true.
    But even though you KNOW it's true and you are in complete logical agreement with the facts, you don't do it.
    What a shame. You're missing out on all that is possible.
    And it's all because of your own hindering beliefs. You think you would not be treating her with respect. You think it would be disrespectful.
    As you recall, I talk at great length about respect. Everything can be measured against the word respect. But it has to be from the correct perspective.
    Look at it this way...
    In the living room, you treat her like a lady. Also said as: You treat her "with respect." All very good, and very important (at least for the high self esteem women.)
    But in the bedroom, have RESPECT for the fact that she is a highly sexual creature that WANTS to get SLUTTY! Also very true (especially true for the high self esteem women.)
    RESPECT that about her. Have respect for her wishes.
    Let me bring your attention to one phenomenon that will change your entire outlook on being "in control" in the bedroom:

During heightened sexual arousal EVERYTHING you say is taken in a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT context
    Live by those words.
    What that means is that when she is feeling very sexual and highly aroused, things that may otherwise sound very disrespectful, will NOT be taken as disrespectful. In fact, they will actually INCREASE her excitement.
    But you have to do it with absolute conviction. if you don't, the dirty talk will crash and burn.
    To do it with absolute conviction, you have to be comfortable with the fact that she is a highly sexual creature. And to be able to do that, you need to be comfortable with sexuality.

Sexual Techniques

    Obtaining the proper knowledge, based upon facts from reality, is the way to empowering beliefs.
    The most important knowledge to obtain, that will improve beliefs the most, is the knowledge to give women incredible pleasure.
    When you know that you can give women sexual experiences beyond anything she has ever imagined, you massively improve your confidence.
    Confidence is a belief in yourself. A self assuredness based upon knowledge based upon facts from reality.
    You are obtaining that knowledge by studying this program. And you came to the right place.
    Years ago I wished there had been a book that I could go to that would tell me the really important things to know about how to give women awesome sex.
    After my divorce in ’92, I set out to figure out what went wrong and how I would never make that mistake again. I read every divorce recovery book there was. That got me very interested in the psychology of relationships. So I read every relationship book there was out there.
    And during my phone sex stage, I was curious to find out what it takes to be an amazing lover. These women would tell me of some of their lovers in the past and how it was so exciting. I simply assumed that it was because the guy had a big dick. So I would outright ask these women: “Why? Did he have a big you know what?” And every single one of the women said: “Well, actually, no.” In fact, a number of women told me how they grew tired of their husband because he had a big dick and kept ramming her with no concern for her pleasure.
    So it was something else. I was determined to find out.
    Unfortunately, these women didn’t really know what it was about the exciting lovers in their past that made it exciting. They’d tell me that it was because the guy was amazingly good at oral sex, or
    something like that. But I could tell in the way that they spoke that they really didn’t know, they were just trying to pin it on one specific thing.
    I became evident to me that the women had simply been swept away in the experience. I extracted information about their stories and started putting the pieces together myself.
    At the same time, I started going to the night clubs on the weekends. I needed the validation that I was still