and clitoris?
YOUR hand in command.
Dr. Sadie Sez: All Out Of Sex Lube?
Then try saliva, the spreadable lube always on the tip of your tongue. While it can work well, it doesn’t last too long. So reapply as needed, or the dry friction will quickly ruin your pleasure play. Better yet, always keep a bottle of quality sex lube nearby—and apply it generously.
Slip your fingers and thumb gently around his penis, and glide its head over your lips and clitoris the way you like it. (If he’s paying attention, he’ll remember your pleasure pattern for next time.) If a little more wetness would feel a whole lot better, drizzle on some sex lube and revel in the slippery sensations. Take your time, create your pleasures, and you’ll zoom toward exotic new orgasms together.
Make His Entrance A Grand One
Once you’re ready, tilt your hips so the slope of your vagina complements his angle of erection. Off-angle penetration, even with plenty of lube, can be uncomfortable. But a harmonious slide inside always takes your breath away.
If you’re on top, be a bit of a tease: slide only the tip of his penis in and out to awaken the millions of pleasure cells at the entrance of your vagina. Then stop moving and give him a few loving squeezes with your PC muscles (and watch his eyes bulge out of his head).
Deepen the tease by easing him inside slowly (next time, when he thinks he knows what’s coming, surprise him with one swift graceful push to the hilt). Then, on your every slow, agonizing outstroke, squeeze his erection tight—or keep him fully submerged at your ideal angle for clitoral gyrating—and let nature take over.
Get Your Pump On
By nature’s design, most everything feels good to him once he’s inside you. But you can turn “good” into goodness-gracious-great-balls-of-fire! Here’s how:
Head Bob. Try stroking only the head of his penis inside the entrance to your vagina, in’n’out, over and over, till he must have all of you.
Combo Platter. Follow three luscious Head Bobs with one long, deep, graceful thrust. Repeat in rhythm.
Love Lever G. When he’s inside you, angle yourself so his penis probes your G-spot. To line up your pleasure spot, see chapter 10.
Dr. Sadie Sez: Play To His Orgasm Trigger.
Sweeten the pace of sex by adjusting your penetration style. If your lover’s got staying power, congratulations! And when you’re ready to wrap it up, try the Combo Platter on the opposite page to bring him to a rousing finish. If he’s got a hair-trigger, try the Divine Grind (below) to minimize friction to the head of his penis, while you enjoy delicious clitoral stimulation. Your mileage may vary, so keep experimenting till you find which strokes work best.
Divine Grind. While on top, don’t be shy about rubbing your clitoris into his cushiony pubic area, and taking control of your own pleasure while giving him deep thrills.
Knead To Speed. After a slow, teasing start, begin accelerating your pumping to fast ’n’ furious as his orgasm nears—being sure you stay well-aligned so you don’t hurt his penis! Or, if you started at jackhammer speed, slow it down for his grand finale, pumping with long, luxurious thrusting.
Deep Gulp. Try imagining your vagina as a warm, wet mouth determined to swallow and suck his erection with every delicious stroke. Grip and squeeze him on the way in, then release him on the way out—or vice versa! To strengthen your grip, see page 18.
Flower Show. Since your guy craves erotic visuals, try this: When you’re on top, spread open your labia with your fingertips, and let him watch his penis go in and out of you. Complete the erotic picture by licking your lips, playing with your breasts, arching your back, tossing your hair. He’ll be on Cloud Nine.
Rhythm Nation. There’s a reason sex is known as horizontal dancing—it’s the rhythm. Rather than pump mechanically—groove to the excitement of your lovemaking, pumping, grinding and swirling your hips in