synch with your mutual passions as your entire bodies sway in harmony, including hips, shoulders and knees. Play your favorite CD.
Secrets To Being His Sexiest Pleasure Partner
Whether this is brand new to you, or merely a refresher course, the biggest thrills of sex are now in your capable hands:
During the walk to the car, in a darkened theater, or on the ride home, lean over and whisper, “I’m not wearing any panties.” You’ll rock his world.
Bring your favorite sextoys into bed with you. It’s good to share, and he may like it more than you think.
Play to his visual fantasies with props, wigs and outfits. Dress up like a sexy prostitute, horny school teacher or runaway nun. Then gaze deeply into his eyes, give him hot “come hither” looks, run your tongue over your lips and touch yourself all over. This is no time to be shy!
Don’t bypass his sensitive nipples. Just figure out whether he likes them nibbled, sucked, licked, tugged, pinched—or all of the above.
Engage your living sextoys—your hands! Suck on your fingers, then place them on his lips to be sucked. Send them exploring into sensitive crevices. Be imaginative!
To race stimulation into high gear, reach over and caress his balls like they’re two delicate eggs. Or massage his butt and tease his anus.
To slow a too-quick orgasm, try recreating a penis ring by encircling the base of his penis with your thumb and forefinger and squeezing firmly.
Time for a new position? Don’t wait for him to decide. Take charge and realign your bodies—even better if it’s a position you two have never tried!
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Be expressive—steer him to your hotspots with whispers and moans.
Be enthusiastic—raise the heat with some new erotic confidence.
Be generous—give in bed and ye shall receive in bed.
Practice sex safely—all the time.
When you’re on the bottom, wrap your legs around hi hips and pull him into you. Gyrate just how YOU like it, with circles and arches that create the angles you love.
Will he go for buttplay? Find out: send your hands and mouth inching toward his butt cheeks for erotic massaging, tonguing and even spanking. If he starts moaning and arching toward you as you slowly approach and encircle his sensitive anus, you’ll have your answer!
Feeling voyeuristic? Try a few strategically placed mirrors around the room for a front-row seat to your own lovemaking. See how erotic it is to watch your lover’s every in-out thrust as he penetrates you. More beautiful than you thought? Now you know why guys are so visual.
Out of breath? Take a break—this isn’t a marathon. Nibble on chocolate, sip some water, catch your breath. Then get back to business.
Why Silence Is Not Golden
If sex is starting to sound like a night at the library, perhaps it’s time to start opening your mouths for a new reason…
Language. Often the right words at the right time can send your lover into overdrive. Whisper how sexy he is, how much you want him, how hot he makes you, and if you love him, why not tell him?
Talk dirty. Between two lovers, dirty talk at the height of passion can ignite a true orgasmic firestorm. You may feel the bonds of upbringing holding you back, but it can also feel liberating to let them go. Look him in the eye, and in a breathless whisper say, “I am so wet for you!” or “I want to ride you, BAD,” or “Lick my tits!” Then watch him race into high gear. For real fireworks, when you reach that point-of-no-return, scream out, “I’m coming!”
Express yourself. Instead of words, let him know how good he makes you feel with sex sounds. This will also guide him to keep doing what he’s doing. Let your low moans, deep breathing, shake-the-rafters ohhhhs and long sensual aaaaaaahhhhs be the soundtrack of your growing arousal.
Listen. His vocalizations are clues to what he likes (and what he doesn’t). And if you hear him moaning, “Just like THAT. Yes! Right there.