last-minute text messages to other family and friends apprising them of the wedding tomorrowâwith the cat still in the bag.
The next morning over a seven-thirty breakfastâwith both sets of parents and Lukeâs grandmother sitting at the table, everyone relaxed and in pyjamas, and Luke and Frances standing together by the sink, they (finally) seize the moment.
âWeâve got something to tell you. You know how last night we said we were engaged?â Luke says to them, âWell, no-one has asked us when weâre getting married.â
Francesâs mother Janne looks up at him and says, reasonably, as any practical woman would: âWeâll get Christmas out of the way first.â
âNo, we wonât,â says Luke, also in a reasonable tone. âWeâre getting married at nine oâclock.â
Silence. For at least five seconds no-one says a word. Francesâs father Richardâs mouth is hanging open. Eventually Lukeâs father says: âDonât you need permission for that?â
âThatâs all organised,â says Luke.
Joy follows pandemonium as family realise that Luke and Frances are quite serious: handshakes, hugs and tearsâdrama about clothes, the order of events, cars â¦
âFrances and Richard went to church in the Monaro that weâd used for my brotherâs wedding. I grabbed a shotgun and let off a few shells as they drove off,â says Luke.
âPastor Tim went right through the Christmas service without saying anything, and then right at the end he said: âAnd now Luke and Frances are to be married, and if youâd like to stay, you are invited.â Everybody stayed.â
No photographer had been organised, but a congregation member and old friend had raced home for his camera, determined that the family would have pictures of this precious, unexpected day. On the family pin-up board, next to drawings by Todd and Stella, is pinned one of his photographs from six years agoâFrances and Luke, their fair hair shining, eyes starry, faces incandescent at their Christmas Day wedding.
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The previous day â¦
After breakfast the day before my father and I wander in and around the treasured old buildings of Holowiliena. Holowiliena dates back to the 1850s: the old stone homestead is the heart of the property, but it is surrounded by historic outbuildings, some restored, some not. Some of these restorations were completed as part of the ABCâs Restoration Australia program, filmed in 2013 and 2014, but Luke and Frances had begun on this work before the series and will continue it into the future. Frances believes that restoration and preservation is the job for her generation of Warwicks. To restore the buildings will take both time and money, and Frances and Luke are now venturing into tourism in order to âmake the history pay for itselfâ.
âBeing asked to be part of Restoration Australia was wonderful luck,â Frances had told me.
It was wonderful luck for the producer of Restoration Australia too. Holowiliena is among the few pastoral properties where the family who took up the lease still runs the property. Add to this the familyâs passion for sharing, their deep tradition of hospitality and their ability to bring to life family members who are long goneâI imagine the producer was overcome with relief and pleasure.
Rather than charging for accommodation and food, Holowiliena provided it gratis to the ABC production teamâand that money saved, Luke tells me, went straight into producing high-quality television on their episode, the seventh and last of the series, which screened in October 2015. Frances and Luke value good craft in the same way they value time spent talking, interacting and eating with guests: it is a good thing in and of itself. They are delighted that the production team crafted a beautiful opening for their episode and pleased to have played such a big
Eleanor Coerr, Ronald Himler