glass if anyone pours me one.â
His fifth happiest moment was in January, 1965, when The Atlantic Monthly took a short story of his, almost twenty years to the month before their second child was born. He was on a writing fellowship in California, had just come back from a monthâs stay with his family in New York. Lots of mail was waiting for him. Heâd only had two stories published before then, or one published and the other accepted, both with little magazines. Rejection, rejection, rejection, he saw, by the bulge in each of the nine-by-twelve-inch manila envelopes heâd sent with the stories. He opened the regular letterenvelope from The Atlantic Monthly , assuming they didnât bother to send back his story with their rejection slip in the stamped return envelope as the others had. In it was the acceptance letter from an editor, with an apology for keeping the story so long. He shouted âOh my gosh; I canât believe it. They took my story,â and he knocked on the door of the political science graduate student who lived in the room next to his. âIâm sorry; did I wake you? But I got to tell you this. The Atlantic Monthly took a story of mine and is giving me six-hundred bucks for it. We have to go out and celebrate, on me.â
The sixth happiest moment was nine years later. He was walking upstairs to his New York apartment with a woman heâd recently met. By that timeâfifteen years after heâd started writingâhe had eight stories published, about a hundred-fifty written, no book yet. âAnother rejection from Harperâs ,â he said. She was in front of him and said âIâm not a writer, but I guess thatâs what you have to expect.â âLetâs see what they have to say. Itâs always good for a laugh.â He opened the envelope heâd sent with the story. âWhatâs this?â he said. He pulled out the galleys to his story and a letter from the editor heâd sent it to and a check for a thousand dollars. The editor wrote âI realize this must be unusual for you, receiving the galleys to your story along with the acceptance letter. But we want to get your story in print as soon as possible and thereâs space for it in the issue after next. We tried calling you, but youâre either unlisted or one of the few writers in New York who doesnât have a phone.â That was true. He didnât. Too costly. And the sudden phone rings in his small studio apartment, when he was deep into his writing, always startled him, so he had the phone removed. âThis is crazy,â he said. â Harperâs took instead of rejected. And for more money than Iâve ever made from my writing,â and he waved the check. They were on the top-floor landing now and she said âLet me shake your hand, mister,â and tweaked his nose.
The seventh happiest moment? Probably in 1961, when a woman, who had dumped him two years before and then three months after theyâd started seeing each other again, said sheâd come to a decision regarding his marriage proposal. They were in the laundry room of his parentsâ apartment building. Had gone down there to get their laundry out of one of the washing machines and into a dryer. âSo?â he said, and she said âOkay, Iâll marry you.â âYou will?â âThat is, if you still want to go through with it.â âDo I? Look at me. Iâm deliriously ecstatic. Ecstatically delirious. I donât know what I am except giddy with happiness. I love you,â and he kissed her and they got their laundry into a dryer and took the elevator back to his parentsâ floor and told them and his sister and brother they had just gotten engaged. She broke it off half a year later, a few weeks before they were to be married in her parentsâ summer home on Fire Island. A big old house, right on the ocean. Her father was a