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take one look at each other and say, “This is ridiculous.”
     
    This is OK, and perfectly normal. Not everything works for everyone. But, it’s important to keep the lines of communication open so there is no misunderstanding about why this particular thing isn’t working.
     
    If you’re not feeling it, let her know – after the sex has finished. Ask her first what she thought about it, and adjust how you talk about it accordingly.
     
    If she says, “That was fantastic!!” Then you can express your happiness that she loved it, but be open and say what you didn’t like about it – maybe that it made you uncomfortable, or that you felt like you were assaulting her, or that it just plain didn’t excite you. Then, you can go from there.
     
    If she seems less than enthused about what you’ve done together, then ask her what would really turn her on. Encourage her to be open with you – after all, you’re here to help! Get her to open up about exactly what her fantasy entails, and promise to make it happen the next time.
     
    The most important thing is that she feels safe and comfortable.
     
    You also might feel like you got way too into the domination. If so, you really should take the time to think about why that is so. Perhaps you’re feeling a bit underappreciated in the relationship, or you simply don’t have enough manly activities in your life that are good outlets for this frame of mind.
     
    However, if you ever get the real urge to cause her pain or to put her down verbally – then stop and seek help.
     
    I’m not saying you’re in trouble; it’s simply that playing with the dynamics of your relationship might have consequences, and you need to be aware of how it makes you feel when you’re participating in a sexual experiment that addresses these dynamics.
     
    You might find during the course of your lovemaking that you fantasize about being this way with another woman. This is completely normal and healthy for a sexually active man. You don’t need to feel like you’re “cheating” on her or that something is wrong with you because it excites you more to think about this other woman while being with your own woman.
     
    Again, this goes back to the dynamic at play when you’re playing with dynamics. Because you are not, I am assuming, a brutish male who stomps all over women’s hearts, in essence you are creating a type of role to play while you’re fulfilling your partner’s alpha male fantasies. And, in the course of playing that role, it might make you feel like a different man. So, it’s natural for you to perhaps think about being with a different woman.
     
    Also, it can be hard for a man to be anything less than 100 percent respectful and even deferential to his woman during lovemaking. You might be fantasizing about another woman simply because it may make it easier for you to behave the way you are.
     
    Or, you might just like fantasizing about other women. Again, perfectly normal. Anyone who says they don’t is lying.
     

PART TWO: FOR WOMEN
     
    BE HONEST. THERE’S SOMETHING MISSING.
     
    What is your husband or boyfriend not doing, but you wish he would?
     
    I’m not talking about the dishes, or dressing better, or chewing with his mouth closed. This book is about how your man does, or does not, satisfy you in the bedroom.
     
    If you’re anything like most women out there, you’ve probably dated a bad boy or two in the past. While you learned soon enough that they’re not really long-term boyfriend or husband material, come on, admit it: Your bad boy rocked your world in bed!
     
    He was a total and complete asshole, he never called, he was probably cheating on you, and if he thought about you for five minutes after seeing you it was a big improvement. You’re better off without him in your life, I can tell you that!
     
    Once you came to your senses, you found a wonderful man who actually cares about you. You feel for the first time that there is a true