Appropriate response. Inappropriate response. I apply that to my rules. If you come out inappropriate, I come back, appropriate. One takes care of the other.
If anyone needs Social Interaction itâs those girls from last year. Do they still go here? Anyway, they should betaking notes on how to get along. They came out inappropriate, not me. They shouldnât have been in my face. They were sophomores and I just got here. They should have had better things to do than to be talking about my jersey, my sneakers. Oh, right. Iâm supposed to stand there like a big dumb bitch and pretend I donât hear them speak my name? Iâm supposed to walk by like itâs all right for them to laugh at me? Iâm supposed to be their joke? Their girlie gossip of the day? Well, they opened their mouths and I responded. Corrected them. Simple as that. But when the dust cleared, no one saw three against one. They just saw the one still standing and three down.
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âCome on, âNique. Letâs go, letâs go, letâs go!â Fenster is like Coach blowing the whistle during laps. Letâs go. Get those knees up.
Iâm all right with Fenster and sheâs all right with me. She gave me an 80 last term. Sheâs not trying to hold me back. Keep me sidelined. She knows I need those points.
After the suspension last year, they sent me to her and she worked out the plea bargain: âDominique has skills on the court. A team sport will help her interact socially and learn to cooperate with others.â Thatâs also on the poster. Cooperation.
AP Shelton said two conditions: âSocial Interaction and keep a clean nose for the next three years.â
Coach said, âKeep your grades up, do what I tell you, and youâll be starting at guard by junior year.â
I go along with it. I do my time. As long as I can be on the team. Get some minutes on the court. So two days a week, I got SI. Freshman, sophomore, junior, senior, SI. Rules for Social Interaction. Surrounded by kids with real problems, real stories about their real problems. Sick-ass stories. After each one, Fenster asks, âWhat did you learn?â and âHow is this different from the last time?â Me? I donât have no stories. So donât ask me what I learned. But I show up. Iâm here. I hold up my end of the deal.
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The Do Now is to come up with three priorities.
âNot everything is a level-one priority,â Fenster says.
Thatâs what weâre learning. How to prioritize, figure out whatâs important. How to stack them in order of importance.
I got my three and I arrange them in order. What Iâll say is most important and what Iâll say is least important. So, when Fenster asks me why arenât I writing, I point to my head and say, âItâs up here.â
âOkay, âNique. Letâs hear them.â Fenster tests mebecause she doubts me. Thatâs her thing. Iâve been around. Iâm wise to the game.
Thatâs cool. Iâm ready. I say, âGet back my minutes on the court.â Thatâs number one. Level one.
She nods and holds up one finger.
âUp my grades.â Yeah. Iâm gonna squeeze that little brown mouse when I get up to the third floor.
She nods, two fingers. Big smile. Iâm getting a âplusâ in the book of pluses and minuses. Thatâs how she scores us. Too many minuses and we get a one-on-one. The intervention.
âImprove my Dâ is the last one I give her. The fake-out. She should know better but holds up a third finger. She should know improving my defense is like breathing or eating. Everyday stuff. See, the real priority is as important as the first. Dealing with the third priority last doesnât make it a level-three priority. Itâs just the order that it will go down in, at 2:45. Itâs a top priority. A personal priority. Itâs not that I want to respond to it, I have