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agreement (of any kind) you have to know what it is that you want to get out of it. It just makes since. If you don't know what you want, how do you expect to be happy with the end result?
    The following two questionnaires are designed to help you and your partner to better understand what each of you really wants. Since it is often difficult to discuss some things, especially if they reveal things about yourself that you may be somewhat embarrassed about, these two questionnaires will help you get a few things out in the open. However, these are only designed to get you started. Once you begin to discuss some of the things you want, you may find yourself opening up to each other a great deal more than you ever thought possible.
    So, in answering the questions, you must be honest. Honest answers will get you more of what you want. If you truly would enjoy something (or even think you would) say so. Don't put down an answer that indicates less than the truth. It will only serve to hinder you when you hammer out that first agreement.
    There are two questionnaires, one for women and the other for men. Each of you will share your answers with the other once you have completed them. However, I recommend answering your questionnaire alone and then sharing your answers with your partner to see if you have anything in common.
     
    Her Questions:
    Q-1: I would like control of our financial decisions to be...
    A) All mine
    B) Mostly mine
    C) Shared equally
    D) Mostly his
    E) All his
     
    Q-2: I would like control of the direction of our lives to be...
    A) All mine
    B) Mostly mine
    C) Shared equally
    D) Mostly his
    E) All his
     
    Q-3: I would like control of his free time to be...
    A) All mine
    B) Mostly mine
    C) Shared equally
    D) Mostly his
    E) All his
     
    Q-4: I would like control of the household chores to be...
    A) All mine
    B) Mostly mine
    C) Shared equally
    D) Mostly his
    E) All his
     
    Q-5: I would like control of our sexual activity to be...
    A) All mine
    B) Mostly mine
    C) Shared equally
    D) Mostly his
    E) All his
     
    Q-6: I would like control of his sexual release (orgasms) to be...
    A) All mine
    B) Mostly mine
    C) Shared equally
    D) Mostly his
    E) All his
     
    Q-7: I would like him to acknowledge that I am the head of the house...
    A) Publicly
    B) Only to me
    C) No
     
    Q-8: I think I would enjoy punishing him...
    A) Physically
    B) Non-physically
    C) Both
    D) Not at all
     
    Q-9: I think I would enjoy making him my servant (or slave).
    A) Yes, definitely
    B) Yes, in some ways
    C) Not really
    D) Definitely not
     
    Q-10: I think I would like to put him in chastity.
    A) Yes, definitely
    B) Sometimes
    C) Only in play
    D) Not at all
     
    Q-11: I want him to be obedient to me.
    A) Always
    B) Most of the time
    C) Some of the time
    D) Not really
     
    Q-12: I want him to initiate sex with me.
    A) Never
    B) Sometimes
    C) When I allow it
    D) Always
     
    Q-13: I want him to reveal his inner-most fantasies.
    A) Yes, definitely
    B) Only when I ask
    C) If he wants to
    D) Never
     
    Q-14: I like the feeling of being “in charge.”
    A) Definitely
    B) Most of the time
    C) On occasion
    D) Never
     
    Q-15: Being in charge makes me uncomfortable.
    A) Never
    B) Sometimes
    C) Most of the time
    D) Always
     
    Q-16: I would love for him to rub my feet.
    A) Definitely
    B) Occasionally
    C) If he wants to
    D) Never
     
    Q-17: I would love it if he would fetch things for me.
    A) Always
    B) Occasionally
    C) If he wants to
    D) Never
     
    Q-18: I want him to seek my approval.
    A) Always
    B) Occasionally
    C) If he wants to
    D) Never
     
    Q-19: I want him to make himself attractive for me.
    A) Always
    B) Occasionally
    C) If he wants to
    D) Never
     
    Q-20: I want him to appreciate me.
    A) Always
    B) Occasionally
    C) Sometimes
    D) Never
     
    Q-21: I want him to do more of the housework.
    A) Always
    B) When I tell him to
    C) Occasionally
    D) Never
     
    Q-22: I want him to sexually desire me.
    A) Always
    B) Occasionally
    C) Sometimes
    D) Never
     
    Q-23: