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being from the U.S., we knew that we weren't going to be in the same place for very long. We had sex three times and then she left the country. That was it. I still keep in contact with her, email every so often.
It was interesting because I kind of assumed that the way I would lose it is that a girl would finally say, "Let's have sex." I learned that's not the way things happen. I initiated and she said, "Sure." That's how I've been doing it ever since. Guys have to initiate.

THE GAME
Anthony, 23

All right. The time when I lost my virginity was Dec. 24th, 1998. I was a spring chicken. A fresh boy straight out of the coop. And it was a black piece of pussy that just had my name on it. She was smokin’.
I was the ever-present wingman for one of my friends going out with her. So I was the personality, he was the physicality. And finally I just talked the bitch into it. She dropped him and then went for me. You got to trick a girl. The way to get pussy is to trick a bitch. Trick a bitch! Basically I’ve been tricking girls ever since I got my first piece of ass and I will remain tricking girls until I find a woman who is right for me. I will tell them what I have to tell them to get them in the sack.
You can be a fat, nothing, white kid who really has no business getting any butt, or you can get a lot of ass if you act like the number one stud. And you always do this, that’s how you should always think and act. So when a girl comes up to you and wants to have sex with you don’t look surprised, even though she could be hot and you’re a slob. You just go with it and that’s how you trick it.
So a little, chubby white boy like myself didn’t know what I was in for. She came by and we made passionate love under the Christmas tree until my mother came home. My mother walked in the house and found us both half naked so it of course broke up the proceedings. But that is the story of how I, a little white boy with jungle fever, lost my virginity.
Look,the fact of the matter is, if you really want to get what you want, you gotta trick them. Trick them into thinking you’re sweet and nice. Because if you tell them the truth, she ain’t gonna want your ass. You’re really not that ill, just remember that. If you’re not tricking her, then you’re gettin’ tricked.
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    Losing your virginity is the worst for girls. For guys it's like heaven.
Lisa, 30
Austin, TX
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Vanessa, 25

A couple days after my 13th birthday, I was at the mall with my best friend. This guy came up to me and said, "You’re cute. What’s your number?" Being that I was young and insecure, something as simple as a guy asking for my number made me feel cool, I gave it to him. He was older, maybe 20. I told him I was 17. Whether or not he believed me, he was like, "Come over to my house."
My friend and I got into his car and she and I pretty much knew what was going to happen once we got there. I started to prepare myself for the inevitable because I knew once I got to his house it would be too late to back down.
I never said I didn’t want to do it, so it happened up in his bed. My friend and one of his friends did it in another room. That’s how we knew it was kind of a set-up, because some other guy was already there waiting for us. Getting us girls there was a plan and it felt like a plan. That sucks when it’s your first experience.
I was a 13-year-old insecure little girl who felt fat and ugly. He was the first guy who ever asked for my phone number so when he first came up to me I felt pretty special. After it happened, I didn’t feel special at all. These guys wouldn’t even go out of their way to drop us off. We had to take the bus. The whole bus ride home my friend and I talked about it, about how neither of us liked it, neither of us thought it felt good. It wasn’t the right way. It wasn’t right at all. It wasn’t right until four years later when I dated my first serious boyfriend.
I learned a lot from that