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sex life."
Another woman, in her mid-forties and from Los Angeles, recounted this story: "1 had been taking a class in signing for the deaf, so my husband had been used to me being gone every Tuesday and Thursday evening. So the night of The Sexuality Seminar I told him a white lie and said I had a special study class for signing. The next morning, I called him and confessed that I really hadn't been at my regular class the night before, but I'd gone to The Sexuality Seminar instead. At first he didn't believe me. Then I said 'Meet me at home, be nude, and I'll prove it to you.– He did and she told me that it was one of the best afternoons of lovemaking they'd had since they'd gotten married.
Yet another woman. after going through their usual weekend argument about what movie to rent, acquiesced to
her husband, agreeing to forgo her love story for his action adventure. Later, at the video store, she had an idea. She walked out a little while later with both the action adventure and a pornographic film. She put the porn film in the action adventure case and handed it to him, saying she would make them some popcorn and be right in. Instead of going to the kitchen, she went to the bedroom and put on one of his shirts, a sexy bra, and a thong. Then she joined him in front of the television. As it turned out, he got his action adventure, after all.
An elegant middle-aged woman told me of accompanying her lover, an older, very regal gentleman in his mid-sixties, to the Jockey Club in New York for lunch. It was late afternoon and the club's restaurant was virtually empty except for one other couple across the room. Under the circumstances, they were both surprised by how little attention they were receiving from the waiter. After bringing them some wine, the waiter had left them alone for a long time. She could see that her partner was starting to become impatient with the lack of service, in spite of the fact they were in no hurry at all. She wondered why he always had to get so uptight in restaurants. Knowing that an unpleasant scene was imminent, she reached under the table in their booth. Putting her hand on his crotch, she began to rub it gently, increasing the intensity as his attention obviously shifted from the missing waiter. He was shocked at her boldness, but couldn't stop himself from reacting to it. She was surprised at her behavior, too, as it was rare for her to be the aggressor in any of their sexual encounters. For some reason, it excited her beyond belief to have been able to squelch his anger with her bare hand, and she felt giddy with excitement. She unzipped his fly, freed his penis and continued working on him. As he grabbed the napkin and rushed it under the table, the only thing he could muster was, "God, I hope that waiter doesn't come back now!" To this day, he has never complained about having to wait for service in a restaurant again. A warning: If you should try this yourself, do make sure that the tablecloth reaches at least halfway to the floor.
     
Secret from Lou's Archive
Women and men have distinctly different scents. Men tend to smell muskier, and women sweeter. There are also different scents among the different races: my sources tell me that Caucasian, African-American, and Asian men all have distinct body scents.
     
     
In another scenario, a nurse from Toronto changed her husband's expectation of Christmas forever. In his stocking, she put several "gift certificates" entitling him to particular sexual requests. He could ask for anything he wanted from her sexually. A week or so after Christmas, she came home and there, at the top of the stairs, was her husband wearing nothing but a smile and a certificate. After fifteen years of marriage, the ritual continues and this couple insists that their sex drive, their commitment, and their love for each other has only gotten stronger.
     
More Ways to Steam Things Up
Talk explicitly about what you want to do to him, and he to you, in bed. This can