principle of Resistance.
Principle Number Three: This Enemy Is Inside You
Pat Riley, when he was coach of the Lakers, had a term for all those off-court forces, like fame and ego (not to mention crazed fans, the press, agents, sponsors, and ex-wives), that worked against the players’ chances for on-court success. He called these forces “peripheral opponents.”
Resistance is not a peripheral opponent. It does not arise from rivals, bosses, spouses, children, terrorists, lobbyists, or political adversaries.
It comes from us.
You can board a spaceship to Pluto and settle, all by yourself, into a perfect artist’s cottage ten zillion miles from Earth. Resistance will still be with you.
The enemy is inside you.
Principle Number Four:
The Enemy Is Inside You, But It Is Not You
The fourth axiom of Resistance is that the enemy is inside you, but it is not you.
What does that mean? It means you are not to blame for the voices of Resistance you hear in your head.
They are not your “fault.” You have done nothing “wrong.” You have committed no “sin.” I have that same voice in my head. So did Picasso and Einstein. So do Sarah Palin and Lady Gaga and Donald Trump.
If you’ve got a head, you’ve got a voice of Resistance inside it.
The enemy is in you, but it is not you. No moral judgment attaches to the possession of it. You “have” Resistance the same way you “have” a heartbeat.
You are blameless. You retain free will and the capacity to act.
Principle Number Five:
The “Real You” Must Duel the “Resistance You”
On the field of the Self stand a knight and a dragon.
You are the knight.
Resistance is the dragon.
There is no way to be nice to the dragon, or to reason with it or negotiate with it or beam a white light around it and make it your friend. The dragon belches fire and lives only to block you from reaching the gold of wisdom and freedom, which it has been charged to guard to its final breath.
The only intercourse possible between the knight and the dragon is battle.
The contest is life-and-death, mano a mano . It asks no quarter and gives none.
This is the fifth principle of Resistance.
Principle Number Six: Resistance Arises Second
The sixth principle of Resistance (and the key to overcoming it) is that Resistance arises second.
What comes first is the idea, the passion, the dream of the work we are so excited to create that it scares the hell out of us.
Resistance is the response of the frightened, petty, small-time ego to the brave, generous, magnificent impulse of the creative self.
Resistance is the shadow cast by the innovative self’s sun.
What does this mean to us—the artists and entrepreneurs in the trenches?
It means that before the dragon of Resistance reared its ugly head and breathed fire into our faces, there existed within us a force so potent and life-affirming that it summoned this beast into being, perversely, to combat it.
It means that, at bottom, Resistance is not the towering, all-powerful monster before whom we are compelled to quake in terror. Resistance is more like the pain-in-the-ass schoolteacher who won’t let us climb that tree in the playground.
But the urge to climb came first.
That urge is love.
Love for the material, love for the work, love for our brothers and sisters to whom we will offer our work as a gift.
In Greek, the word is eros . Life force. Dynamis , creative drive.
That mischievous tree-climbing scamp is our friend.
She’s us, she’s our higher nature, our Self. In the face of Resistance, we have to remember her and hang onto her and draw strength from her.
The opposite of fear is love—love of the challenge, love of the work, the pure joyous passion to take a shot at our dream and see if we can pull it off.
Principle Number Seven:
The Opposite of Resistance Is
Elizabeth Amelia Barrington