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applied only from the waist down to limit any risk to those with heart conditions. Scared yet? Relax. With research, proper equipment and safe use, electrosex can add a real charge to the BDSM experience.
    E-stimulation products for men include penis bands that fit around the shaft. The electrical pulses run between the bands to create an intensely pleasurable and unique sensation. The current’s settings are adjustable. Penis sheaths and rings are also available and function similarly. There are also scrotal toys or “parachutes” that wrap around the scrotum, pull it down and away from the body,and then tingle it with currents. They’re useless for skydiving, though.
    E-stimulation products for women include bullets and probes for vaginal insertion, and clamps for external vaginal stimulation. E-stimulation wands and butt plugs are also available.
    Newcomers to erotic electrostimulation may wish to purchase an electrosex beginner’s kit. These usually include a power box, adhesivepads and a few accessories. Most importantly, they contain comprehensive instructions for use.
    Electrosex can add a sexy spark to many aspects of BDSM play, especially delayed gratification (see #3 ) and erotic torture (see #33 ). When combined with bondage and sensory deprivation—even a blindfold will do—it results in an electrifying sexual experience for dominant and submissive alike.

36. Sexual Positions & Thrusting Techniques
    Despite the arsenal of bondage gear, rubber clothing, whips and chains, sex toys, erotic mind games and rope burns that constitutes BDSM sexplay, there is still room for good old-fashioned sexual intercourse; however, like everything else in BDSM, the focus of penetrative sex is on delivering as much sensory stimulation as possible.To that end, it is essential that dominants and submissives of both sexes be conscious of how different sexual positions can affect pleasure—specifically, how the angle, depth, speed and force of thrusting can change the way sex feels for both partners.
    The ancient sex manual
Kama Sutra
is widely speculated to be a source of BDSM practices. Written in the third century AD, the
Kama Sutra
was written by an Indian sage by the name of Vatsyayana. In it, Vatsyayana describes the “various ways of laying down and the different kinds of congress.” Translation: different sexual positions and thrusting techniques. A number of these BDSM-worthy positions and thrusts are described below.
    Positions
    Yawning In this position, the woman lies on her back, raises her thighs, and holdsthem apart as her man penetrates her. She can hook her arms around the back of her knees to hold her legs open, or she can rest her legs on her man’s shoulders for support. This position makes a woman’s clitoris accessible to her man, allowing him to stimulate it as he simultaneously thrusts into her. It also gives him a beautiful bird’s-eye view of her bare breasts and body below him.
    Rising The woman raises her legs straight up in the air as her man penetrates her.
    Clasping This is the basic missionary position where both partners stretch their legs straight against each other, lying face-to-face, typically with the man on top. BDSM players can add a little sin to this sweet position by having the woman wrap her legs around the man’s body and either press her nails into hisback or give it a long scratch (see #14 ). A woman can also aggressively lift her pelvis to push up against her partner’s groin, thus establishing her dominant position even when she is on the bottom.
    Lotus In this classic lovemaking position, the man sits cross-legged while his woman sits on his lap and lowers her body onto his erection. She wraps her legs around his body, and her arms aroundhis neck, using his shoulders as leverage to pump his shaft. The man can also grip his woman’s buttocks to lift her off and on his erection, thereby using her body to stroke it. This position helps in the BDSM practice of delayed