extraordinary. I was like a spoilt child, forever getting into huffs about things and telling Erion it was all over, although they never lasted longer than a day; then heâd come back and Iâd cry and tell him I loved him and was sorry. I should have realised, though, that you canât keep stamping on something over and over again and expect it not to at least change its shape, even if it doesnât actually disintegrate into a thousand shattered pieces.
It was during one of our day-long break-ups that I started a new job, and when my co-workers asked if I had a boyfriend, I said, like Judas, âNo.â When Erion and I got back together again the next day, I would have felt stupid telling them Iâd lied and that I did have a boyfriend after all. And, in any case, it didnât really come up in conversation again. So whenever Erion phoned me at work, Iâd text him and tell him: âI canât talk right now. Iâll phone you later.â He must have known I was lying and he must have been really hurt and wondered why. But I couldnât help myself: there was something perverse and self-destructive in me that made it impossible for me to accept the fact that my life with Erion was happy and he loved me, although Iknow now that I wasnât as horrible to him as I blame myself for being and that, in reality, we were happy together most of the time.
Although we had our own flats, Erion spent most nights at mine â letting himself in with his key after he finished work at the club in the early hours of the morning â and I slept better knowing he was beside me. He cared about me and took care of me in the way that John had tried to do in the early days of our relationship but without doing the âpaternal disapprovalâ thing Iâd learned to hate. And I am ashamed that I didnât always appreciate it at the time. For example, one morning, I had an appointment at the dentist and my mum picked me up just before 9 oâclock to drive me there. Erion had taken me to a previous appointment, but this one was early, when heâd normally be asleep after his night at the club, and Mum had offered to take me instead.
The dental practice was in a part of town I didnât know, and although I thought Iâd remember the way from the last time Iâd been, I didnât seem to recognise any of the streets when we got there. It was a rough area and as I directed us down the same street for the third time, some of the people standing at a bus stop turned to watch us and I could sense my motherâs anxiety.
âHow can you have forgotten the way?â she wailed, reaching out her right hand as she spoke and pressing the central door lock. âThis is a horrible area. We canât keep driving round and round in circles. Weâre already drawingattention to ourselves. For heavenâs sake, Sophie, think! Which way do we go?â
âI donât know, Mum,â I answered. âIâm sorry, but I just donât know where we are. Iâll phone Erion.â
He answered the phone on the second ring, his voice husky with sleep.
âWeâre lost,â I told him tearfully. âWeâve been driving up and down the same streets and I canât find the dentist.â
âItâs okay, Sophie,â he said, immediately wide awake. âJust tell me where you are.â
âI donât know where we are!â I cried. âI donât recognise anything .â
âWell, tell me what you can see then,â he said. âJust tell me whatâs in the street around you.â
So I described the large, square, red-brick Victorian building with its metal-shuttered windows and the litter-strewn patch of grass beside a small tarmac-covered play area on which stood a rusty swing and a battered seesaw. Erion made a small triumphant sound and said, âI know where you are. Stay there and Iâll be with you in 10