spending time with his family and friends.
Finding Out Whatâs Under Second Base
Lex Urban
My belief was formed eighteen years ago as a five-year-old kid during my first of many seasons of Little League baseball. My friend, Patrick, was on second base when I came up to bat. I sent a line drive out to left field, and after admiring my hit for a while (that momentary pause that drives coaches and parents nuts), I took off running in the direction of first base. Patrick, however, had yet to start running. In fact, he hadnât even left second base. Instead of running for third, Patrick had picked up the base to explore what was underneath. Apparently the mystery that had plagued kids for centuriesâwhat could possibly be hiding underneath second base?âneeded to be solved immediately. The fact that it was the second inning of our first T-ball game was of no consequence.
What followed were howls of laughter from many kids and even a few adults. I donât remember if we won the game, if I made it to second base, or if Patrick took the base with him as he advanced to third. What I do remember, and what has become a core philosophy of mine, is that I should always take the time to find out whatâs underneath second base.
Looking underneath second base is about living for the moment. Itâs not caring if others think what Iâm doing is stupid or foolish. It is about being honest with myself and doing what makes me happy and not bowing to outside pressures. It is a reminder that I should look beneath the surface of things, and more important, people. Everyone has a storyâa series of significant and insignificant experiences that precede each moment of their lives. I am more patient and understanding, because I realize that the story may be a painful and stressful one.
After college graduation I did not get a high-paying job on Wall Street like many of my classmates did. I decided to dedicate a year to full-time community service as an AmeriCorps volunteer at City Year in Washington, D.C. I tutored kids of all ages in math and reading. I saw firsthand the impact of painful and stressful experiences. A hardened exterior usually hid a much softer individual on the inside. A kid who told me off on the first day later expressed sadness that he didnât get to see me over the Thanksgiving break. I saw the power of giving my time to help others. It has truly been the most memorable experience of my life thus far.
No longer a five-year-old without a care in the world, I have been introduced to the adult concepts of planning, responsibility, and maturity. No one can deny the importance of the future, but no one can guarantee its presence, either. I try not to get so wrapped up in planning for the future that I forget to enjoy whatâs right in front of me. Taking time to look underneath second base reminds me that itâs the journey and not the destination that counts.
Looking under second base reminds me to take the time to appreciate things. It reminds me that the daily grind and the hustle and bustle of a fast-paced world is a voluntary activity. I can choose how I live my life. I choose to always take the time to find out whatâs under second base.
Lex Urban is the former captain of the two-time National Champion Williams College Menâs Tennis team. Mr. Urban served a year as an AmeriCorps member of City Year in Washington, D.C., where he now lives and practices law.
Accomplishing Big Things in Small Pieces
William Wissemann
I carry a Rubikâs Cube in my backpack. Solving it quickly is a terrific conversation starter, and it is surprisingly impressive to girls. Iâve been asked to solve the cube on the New York City subway, at a track meet in Westchester, and at a café in Paris. I usually ask people to try it first. They turn the cube over in their hands, halfheartedly make a few moves, and then sheepishly hand it back. They donât even know where to begin.
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