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need to use foreplay on your woman before you can expect to give her pleasure. Bottom line. Even if you aren’t planning on having sex with her, you need to get foreplay going so you can get her in the mood for orgasm. The more foreplay you can use on her, the better. This is when you want to use some of the foreplay techniques that were previously described. You want to get your woman thinking about pleasure and receiving it. When she starts thinking about sex and pleasure that is how she is going to start becoming aroused. Remember that women are stimulated in a very intellectual way, so by using foreplay on her, you are stimulating her, even if you aren’t touching her g-spot or her clitoris. You need to start thinking like her in the bedroom and thinking about how she receives pleasure. That is how you are truly going to be able to make her orgasm.
    One of the biggest tips is to take your time. There is no rush, unless, of course, you and your woman want to have a quickie. However, if you want to pamper her body and to give her something really satisfying, then you cannot rush it. It is not a race and you don’t need to get it out of the way. Get out of this mindset and it will serve you well. Not only will you be able to satisfy your woman in a much better way, you will be able to learn how to savor the moment in the bedroom yourself. Men could use that lesson and learn how to slow things down so by practicing it often, it will change the way you think about sex.
    When it comes to stimulation, start slow. Pacing is key. If you rush things she will pick up on it and it will turn her off. Go slow and gradually pick up the pace. Also, if you go too fast, you have a much greater chance of slipping and causing her pain. This is what you want to avoid. When you take your time, you are able to really focus on her body and that is key.
    It is best to start stimulation from head to toe, like previously described. Before you aim between her legs, stimulate her by giving her a passionate kiss or by rubbing her nipples. You want to get her aroused and you want her to feel wet before you even begin to touch her down there. Again, this has to do with foreplay. Get her in the mood and have her begging for you. This is what you want.
    In terms of the female orgasm, there are two ways that a woman can orgasm and that is from g-spot stimulation or clitoral stimulation. Now, there is a third orgasm a woman can have and that is a double orgasm; a combination of the clitoral and g-spot orgasm. With these different forms of orgasm, you have a lot to work with and you have some room for error. You have a 1 out of 3 chance of making your woman orgasm every single time you touch her and those are pretty good odds when you think about it.
    The easiest way to make a woman orgasm is through clitoral stimulation. You are able to give her constant stimulation and that is important for her orgasm. There are many ways that you can stimulate the clitoris, but the best is to use your tongue. When you use your fingers or a vibrator, again, you run the risk of slipping and causing her pain. With the clitoris containing over 8000 nerve endings, it is a very delicate and sensitive spot on her body. The last thing you want to do is to do something wrong that is going to cause her some pain. Your tongue is great to use on her clitoris because it is a fine balance between rough and soft. You are able to be gentle with her by using the tip of your tongue to lick gently, and then you are also able to use your whole tongue to lick her up and down and to really get her going in the bedroom. You can go slow, you can go fast and you can really mix it up to give her what she needs in order to climax. To help you be even better at giving your woman what she wants in terms of using your tongue, look forward to an entire chapter dedicated to oral sex and everything you’ve ever needed to know.
    If you wish to use your fingers or a vibrator on her clitoris, then make