The Murder of Jeffrey Dryden: The Grim Truth Surrounding Male Domestic Abuse Read Online Free PDF Page A

want us to think, that's just the way
it’s going to be and nothing will probably ever change
that.”
    Somehow she took the whole, “demanding
his head,” thing as a racial comment, as after that she started
using a lot of racial slurs herself, stating that I should feel
embarrassed for attacking her and her family because of their race
and color. Trying to put a quick end to the whole, “racial
comments,” I responded back stating: “Tiff I have nothing to be
ashamed of... also you’re the only one bringing race into this...I
never said anything about color in any of my post previous or
otherwise. I said what I said because any family would feel that
way; this has absolutely nothing to do with race, color, or
creed.”
    During this back and forth argument
between the bulk of Chiquita’s online family and myself. Kristen
Woudstra, a friend of Jeff’s added more information backing up much
of what I had already quantified, Kristen stated:
    “ RIP Jeff you will always
be in my heart! It’s amazing how some people act on here, Jeff was
a wonderful amazing person! I cannot wait for her day in court, she
will get her justice, and everyone can have some peace. And yes I
know I wasn’t there blah blah blah. He was one of my best friends
and I will always miss him. Stupid people deserve what they get! Oh
and by the way the past violence was not against him.”
    A person going by the name Nick Slater
stated: “You know your right i wasn't around 24/7. But I saw him at
least 5 days a week for the past 5 years, so i think that’s pretty
close to 24/7. And just because i wasn't there for what happened
dosn't change what i know about your cousin. I know that she was
the one that just got off probation for that last domestic that she
got. Moreover, i know that your cousin was a bit** to Jeff. He
repeatedly told me that the only time she gave two shits about him
was the week he got paid. By the way does anybody feel dumber after
attempting to read that stuff below?”
    With that, part 2 of the posting wars
ended, but by no means was the battle over. There was more to say
and more to add the next day, when the Wyoming Police Department
reported to the press that they had placed formal charges of Murder
in the 2nd degree on Chiquita Fizer; the posting wars were far, far
from being resolved.

CHAPTER 4:
    WINTER 2009
    “ It was six or seven months
later when Jeff finally had enough and went to meet Chiquita for
what he thought would be the last time.” Jason stated, “ Jeff had enough of
her constant begging him for money or other things and just wanted
to move on, however, when he went to go see her that night, he
learned what she had truly been planning all along,” Jason said.
    Apparently, through the months of their
weekly encounters, Chiquita had been taking notes of everything
Jeff let slip whenever they were together, things such as telling
her where he worked and how well he was paid, telling her about his
past with the law and his two charges of possession. Allowing her
to see him rolling up and smoking a joint just after sex, as well
as admitting to her that Marijuana was his chosen addiction, and
how he secretly feared every day at work, that someone might rat
him out as being a user, or worse, the idea of spending the rest of
his life in jail.
    Sadly, Jeff either forgot or didn’t
know that men are very trusting after sexual intercourse due to the
endorphins of euphoria running through their body and mind shortly
after an orgasm or ejaculation. Both men and women share this
commonality, as an orgasm (or ejaculation) is similar, having the
same effects on the body as the use of marijuana and other similar
illegal drugs, just not having the same long-term side-effects on
the body.
    As such, while in that state of
overwhelming bliss and/or euphoria, Jeff allowed himself to slip,
allowed himself to trust, dropping his defenses, and shared such
information with the proverbial black widow, the woman that would
take