in?â
He was lying on his side under the blankets, facing the wall. I turned on the bedside lamp and sat down gingerly on the edge of the bed.
âI got you something to eat,â I said.
He turned over. âI canât eat, Dad, really.â
I took out a croissant. âIâm just going to have a little bite then myself.â
He looked hungrily at the bag.
âSo,â I said (munch, munch), âwhatâs up.â
âNothing,â he said.
âIs this about Rebecca?â I said.
He sat bolt upright. His thick hair standing on end like heâd been hit by lightning. âShe had an orgasm,â he whispered. I recoiled. I couldnât help myself. This wasnât the sort of conversation I wanted to have with my sixteen-year-old son, not in that detail anyway. (Thatâs what his buddies were for.) But I could also see that having said those words, just by getting them to the surface and into the light, he had released a dose of poison from his body.
I hid my discomfort by taking a large mouthful of dough almost whole.
âBut you know what she said afterwards?â he asked.
âNo, I donât.â
âShe said, âI really like you, Jesse, but when I hug you, itâs like hugging a friend.ââ
âShe said that?â
âExactly. I swear, Dad. Like I was some kind of girlfriend or gay or something.â
After a moment I said, âYou know what I think?â
âWhat?â He looked like a convicted man waiting to hear his sentence.
I said, âI think sheâs a troublemaking little bitch who loves to torment you.â
âReally?â
âReally.â
He lay back as if the awfulness of the situation had just re-occurred to him.
âListen to me,â I said. âIâm going to have to go out pretty soon, Iâve got some things to do and youâre going to start thinking about this stuff again. . . .â
âProbably.â
Weighing my words, I spoke carefully. âI donât want to have an inappropriate conversation with you, weâre not pals, weâre father and son, but I want to say this to you. Girls donât have orgasms with people theyâre not physically attracted to.â
âAre you sure?â
âYes,â I said emphatically.
(Is that true? I wondered. Doesnât matter. Not todayâs problem.)
I took Jesse to see Sexy Beast (2002) with Ben Kingsley at the Cumberland theatre. I could tell he wasnât watching the movie, that he was sitting there in the dark thinking about Rebecca Ng and that âhugging a friendâ business. On the way home, I said, âDid you get a chance to talk about all the stuff you wanted to talk about today?â
He didnât look at me. âAbsolutely,â he said. Door closed; mind your own beeswax. We walked the rest of the way to the subway in a curiously uncomfortable silence. Talking, weâd never had a problem with, but now it seemed as if weâd run out of things to say to each other. Perhaps, even at his young age, he intuited I couldnât tell him anything that was going to make a difference. Only Rebecca could do that. But it seemed heâd forgotten how his own nervous system worked, that just putting things to words released him, partially, from the distress they described. He was sealed off from me. And I felt a curious reluctance to barge into rooms where I wasnât invited. He was growing up.
The weather, the way it always is when youâre heartbroken, was terrible. Rainy mornings; colourless skies in the afternoon. A car had squashed a squirrel in front of the door and you couldnât go in or out of the house without looking, involuntarily, at the furry gore. At a family dinner with his mother and my wife, Tina, he fidgeted with his steak and mashed potatoes (his favourite) with polite, if slightly mechanical, enthusiasm. He looked wan, like a sick child, and drank too much