On the walls were photographs Jenny had taken of Tara and me. For a while Jenny thought about a career as a photographer. She still walks through the apartment with her camera around her neck, taking pictures. On the bookshelves were her casebooks and her legal manuals from the public defenderâs office.
My books were also on the shelves. We share the office; I live here too. But I travel light, Jenny says. I could fit all my possessions into a couple of suitcases. Why get attached to objects? I was happy to have Jenny decorate our home. It felt no less mine for her doing so.
Novels lay throughout the bedroom. Jenny loves Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, and Chekhov; when she was a girl, she told me, she pretended she lived in nineteenth-century Russia. Sometimes at night we read aloud to each other before we go to sleep.
âTell me what you were like as a child,â she asked me once. âMake it so real I can see you.â
On the floor sat a huge oak chessboard, made in England in the eighteenth century. It had been passed down through Jennyâs family.As a child, she had played chess with her parents; now she played with Tara.
I told Jenny stories about being adopted, how much it had meant to me as a child. I said that someday I might look for my birth mother.
âWhy not look for her now?â Jenny said that if I knew where I came from Iâd be able to get on with my life.
âGet on with my life? What makes you think Iâm not getting on with my life?â
âYouâre a dreamer, Ben. Itâs like your life is out there in the future, but itâs anyoneâs guess what that life is. Sometimes itâs like youâre watching yourself. Itâs as if youâre not in your own body.â
âIâm in my own body.â I slapped the floor to show her I was there. I pounded my fists against my chest. âIâm here, Jen. Look at me. Iâm in my own body.â
âYou should try being like Jonathan. He goes to work every day and comes home at night. He and Sandy make plans. They may be gay, but they live a more normal life than we do.â
âWe live a normal life. I go to work and come home every day. I donât know what youâre talking about.â
But I understood what she was saying. Though Iâd moved into her apartment in January, almost two years after weâd started to go out, it hadnât been as simple as that. I moved in incrementally, shirt by shirt. One day I realized all my clothes were there and it made no sense to keep paying rent on my apartment.
In smaller ways too, I couldnât make a clear decision. I waited until the last minute to pay my bills. Once my phone line got disconnected. I didnât keep a date book, and I hated to make plans. Did I think I would die before the weekend came? Did I believe my birth mother would show up and everything else would become irrelevant?
âLive a life,â Jenny said. âGet a life.â
âI have a life.â
âAll right,â she said. âAll right.â But she wondered whether maybe I should look for my birth mother, whether that might help me sort things out.
âItâs possible,â I said. âIâll think about it.â
But I didnât think about it any more than usual.
âThings just take time.â I ran my hand along Jennyâs neck, down past the open buttons of her blouse, to the pale, freckled hollow between her breasts. âYou donât plan a life. You grow into it. You only understand it when youâre looking back. Besides, whatâs the point of making plans? Man plans and God laughs.â
There I was, believing in my own way that everything was fine, that my life was moving ahead.
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A month later the letter came, forwarded to me from my old address.
Dear Ben Suskind,
Almost thirty-one years ago I gave birth to you. I was sixteen and terrified, I was completely alone. Your father and I had no