asking questions that beg for affirmation, make definitive statements that demonstrate your conviction. And make sure that the speech itself doesnât trail off into extraneous blather and repetition but instead comes to a definite and powerful conclusion. Sound like you know what youâre talking about and believe every word you say. Even if you donât happen to like sushi.
When you have this mastered, youâre done.
Congratulations.
However, just because you were able to identify and correct these five major vocal mistakes today doesnât mean the problem is solved for good. Revisit these exercises twice a week. And whenever youâre in conversation, monitor your posture, breathing, and speech. If you catch yourself backsliding, correct yourself immediately. Before long, youâll not only have women hanging on your every word, youâll have your own radio talk show.
MISSION 1: Hit the Showers
As soon as you wake up, put on your favorite upbeat music and play it loud. Shower, shampoo, and soap thoroughly. Wash twice if you want. And ⦠donât masturbate today, if youâre prone to doing so.
Put something scented on your body: moisturizer, talcum powder, or a light spritz of cologne. Gargle with mouthwash. Whatever makes you feel and smell good.
Then shave your face clean (preserving any preexisting mustache, beard, or goatee). Make sure you shave or tweeze any stray places where you sprout hairâyour ears, nostrils, the back of your neck.
Put on clean, well-fitting clothing. You should feel like a million dollars.
Now look at yourself in the mirror and read the following to yourself:
âYou are amazing. People love you and respect you. You radiate charisma, charm, and grace. You stand out from everyone around you. Talking to you is a privilege. And you deserve the best the world has to offer. Itâs all there out there, waiting for you.â
Read it as many times as it takesâsay it out loud if you have toâuntil you truly feel and embody it.
Now hold on to that feelingâ¦
MISSION 2: Ask an Expert
What you experienced in the previous mission is a simple ritual that helps many men enter a state of increased confidence, positivity, and unassailability Take a moment to develop your own ritual to pump yourself up before going out to meet women. It may involve exercising, cleaning, repeating affirmations,reading something inspirational, replaying previous successes in your mind, blasting your favorite music, singing, showering, dancing, calling someone who makes you laugh, or any combination of the above.
This is the first day youâre going to meet women you could possibly date. You should make these approaches at the earliest possible opportunity after leaving the house clean, well shaven, and feeling good about yourself.
Your mission: Ask three women to recommend a cool local clothing store that carries menswear. Your mission is complete once youâve approached three women and received one clothing store recommendation. (In other words, if you approach three women and you get a clothing store suggestion, youâre done. If you approach three women and you donât get a clothing store recommendation, keep asking until you do.)
When you get a recommendation, write down the name of the store, and the location if she knows it. Make sure you keep the name and location handy.
Here are a few tips:
Approach women who seem like they live in town and have a cool sense of style.
If youâre talking to people in the street, donât approach them from behind, which can be startling. Either approach them from the front, or walk ahead of them and turn your head back over your shoulder as you keep walking. Theyâll feel even more comfortable if you increase the distance as you walk, as if you have somewhere to be. You may also approach in cafés, shopping malls, or wherever youâre comfortable.
Be aware that only about 1 in 3 women will be