private plane to Las Vegas in a couple of days to watch Taylorâs cheerleading team perform at a national championship. Iâd seen cheerleaders on TV during the playoffs, but Joan said Taylorâs team did moves that were more like dancing and gymnasticsâtwo more terms for me to tuck away and figure out later.
After months of training, Taylor was torn between wanting to go and staying home until I got out of the hospital. She didnât want to go without us. As she tried to describe her conflicted feelings, she broke into tears. âI donât want to leave Dad,â she said. âIâm scared. I donât like that he doesnât know anything.â
She was worried, she said, because I wasnât bouncing back like I usually did. Joan told me that Iâd had nine surgeries on my ankles, knees, and shoulders, and Iâd usually felt well enough to stop at the office on my way home from the hospital. I honestly didnât know what to think about the man I used to be because everything I knew about him came from stories like these, filtered through my familyâs perceptions. That said, they were all I had to go on. My new life depended on them.
Joan took Taylor into the hall, but I could still hear them talking. âThis is your national competition,â she said. âYour team is counting on you. Heâs going to be discharged. Heâs going to be fine, and weâre just going to go home.â
I would soon learn that Taylor had been on the team for more than eight years, sheâd been practicing several days a week for this contest, and she was one of the best on her team. Joan had gone to most of Taylorâs competitions with her, but the three of us usually went to this national event together to cheer her on.
Joan continued to juggle calls with the charter company handling the flight and also with the other family that was supposed to fly with us as she developed a contingency plan. She kept me abreast of what was going on, but I maintained my poker face, not revealing that I didnât know any of the people she was talking to. Oddly enough, I still had my critical thinking skills and a vague sense of how some things worked, so I was able to suggest other options for Taylor, such as taking a later flight after I was released. But often when Joan thought I was exercising my previous problem-solving skills, I was actually just parroting back what Iâd just heard herâor someone on TVâsaying.
For example, when I reassured Taylor that it was okay for her to go on her trip, I was actually reinforcing the parental message Iâd heard Joan delivering to her in the hallway. âYou should go be with your team,â I said. âMake us all proud, and donât worry about me. Iâm going to be just fine.â
When I told her to focus on doing well for the team and to keep her mind off the stresses that my injury was causing her, I later wondered if Iâd been somehow drawing on my years of team sports and leadership as a captain even though I couldnât remember a single play on the field. Taylor, not entirely convinced, went to the gym to practice.
Around 7:00 P.M. there was a knock on the door.
âThere he is,â a big booming voice said. âScottie, what are you doing here?â
The voice came from a fit-looking black man in his midfifties. His graying, closely cropped hair was balding in spots, he was dressed in casual business attire, and both he and the heavyset black woman who came in behind him looked concerned.
Feeling the hair stand up on the back of my neck, I sat right up in bed. I didnât understand why this guy was coming into my room unannounced, and I didnât like feeling unprepared for this visitor.
How do these people know me?
With nothing to rely on but my friend-or-foe senses, I felt that this guy was the latter, and I wanted him out as soon as possible.
âJD,â Joan said, âI