points of my body that hurt most of all. And, afterward, warmth. And relief that itâs over.
âCome back in six weeks,â he says. âIf youâre still not responding, weâll talk about other options.â
Other options : I have no idea what this means. But whatever these options are, I will take them, Iâll obey, Iâll be the model patientânot like I used to be.
Home again, I canât stop thinking about the years leading up to my first medical leave: what I should have done, what I might have done, how I might have prevented all this from happening. If Iâd taken a medical leave after my first year at the Peabody Conservatory, if Iâd given myself even a month away from the piano, might that have made a difference in my hands? If Iâd stopped jogging with friends, would my legs have healed by now? What if, after leaving the Conservatory, Iâd gone home to my parents right away instead of staying out east the way I did, working in Connecticut, Florida, Maine, scrambling to make ends meet? What if I hadnât enrolled at the University of Maine, if Iâd let college slide for a while? If Iâd seen better doctors when Iâd first started to limp? If Iâd used my crutches consistently instead of cheating, forgetting to bring them with me, finding reasons to leave them home?
I think about how there was a time in my life when I believed that having to give up the piano was the worstthing that could ever happen to me. I think about the Conservatory, and my friends there, and the rhythms of my old life. I think about the new life Iâd tried to make for myself in Maine. I joined a bird-watchersâ club, but could not keep up on the hikes. I enrolled in an evening dance class, flung myself around, told myself not to be such a baby, nothing could possibly hurt this much. The pain, I told myself, had to be all in my head. I would get on top of it by sheer force of will. Then, one night, I was truly afraid I might not make it home. I stopped to rest on benches, on retaining walls, coaching myself along: three more blocks, câmon, just a little further .
The first campus doctor I saw prescribed the same anti-inflammatories that the doctors at the Conservatory had recommended. These anti-inflammatories had given me gas-trointestinal problems when Iâd taken them before, but the campus doctor said Iâd have to deal with it, it couldnât be helped. He also prescribed vitamins. I was, he said, âshockinglyâ weak. How long had it been since Iâd stopped exercising? This, he told me sternly, was only making my problems worse. It was important to keep moving, to do low-impact exercises, to swim at the university pool. When he heard that Iâd spent my childhood at the piano, the past two years in a conservatory practice room, heâd shaken his head. âWeâve got to get you in shape, young lady,â he said. âYour ankles are so weak that I donât see how you can stand.â
He gave me a pair of crutches, demonstrated how he wanted me to use them. The prescription was for three weeks.
I forced myself to crutch briskly to the end of the block, then sat on the curb, arms and legs burning. It seemed as if a week couldnât pass without the realization that there was yet another thing I couldnât do without pain: hurry across the street as the light changed, climb stairs, walk between classes without stopping, keep up taking notes. The anti-inflammatories smoldered in my stomach. Nights, I lay awake thinking, What the hell is the matter with me ? Thinking, I canât believe this is happening . Thinking, I must be losing my mind .
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