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roots and moaning like she’s in mortal pain, latch on and suck harder until she climaxes.
     
    When she starts to have an orgasm don't let go of that little bud. Hang in there until she’s quieted. If she taps your head, still don’t let go, just quit sucking. It’s only when she’s come down completely that you should move your lips, but even then, keep a finger on her clitoris. Just don’t move it.
     
    If you do that for her, she’ll look forward to sex with you instead of thinking of every excuse to avoid it.
     
    Never, under any circumstances , blow into a woman's vagina as though trying to fill it with air. Doing so is seriously dangerous. It can cause an embolism and death.
     
     
    Sex Toys:
     
    Please don’t feel offended or slighted if your lady wants to use a vibrator while having intercourse with you. Because of the way a woman’s body is designed , she may need the extra direct clitoral stimulation. Because of the strong vibrations, it usually adds extra sensations to the penis as well. So relax. It has nothing to do with your manhood.
     
    Just put yourself in a woman’s place and think how empty it would feel to only have stimulation on the shaft of your penis instead of the head. That’s how intercourse only feels to a woman. Most can only reach a climax if they’re in a position where their clitoris is stimulated as well.
     
    If that doesn’t happen, help her along. Suggest different
    positions. Many women enjoy sitting on top of their men as it’s the best for clitoris stimulation; others still like the missionary position because, like me, they love to feel their man’s skin all over their bodies. Experiment. Suggest a vibrator and make it fun. Use it on her and with her. You’ll be surprised at how receptive she’ll be in the future.
     
    But say you’ve finally gotten her in bed, only now she’s unresponsive, cold. How do you warm her up? Make love to her instead of simply having sex.
     
    Again, pay attention. We’re all different. Some women love to have their nipples licked. Others want them sucked. Some go into raptures by kneading as much as you can get into your hand. It hurts other women. Each time you do touch her, watch or listen to her reaction. You can learn at lot.
     
    Most women, unless they’ve been isolated by solitude at the North Pole, have learned through talk shows, books and magazines, not to tell men when they’re lousy lovers. The male ego thing again. But you’ll know because she’ll avoid sex with you. No matter the dynamics, women still have needs and desires just like men. We just find other ways to fulfill them.
     
    I remember masturbating next to my husband long after he’d gone to sleep. I was frustrated, unfulfilled, and deeply resentful that he’d climaxed during sex and had gone to sleep. Oh sure, he’d been thoughtful of my needs - he said, as he was falling asleep, he was sorry he’d finished too soon. Next time would be better.
     
    Well, I wasn’t concerned with next time; I was aroused and needed satisfaction right then. I used my finger, so why couldn’t he have used his finger on me?
     
    It’s not premature ejaculation or small penises that matter to women. If we love you, those are all things we can live with. We might wish it were different just like we might wish we were taller or shorter, but it won’t keep us up at night.
     
    What will keep us up, is being aroused and frustrated.
     
    If you climax before her, don’t feel like a shit and go to sleep. No amount of apologies will help. Even if your body is begging for rest or sleep and your penis is as limp as last week’s lettuce, hold her, kiss her and use your finger. For some reason, my lover’s finger felt much better than my own. Or consider oral sex. She’ll love for you for it.
     
    And the next time you want sex? She may be tired, may have had a difficult day at home, the office, or wherever she spends her days, but when she sees that look in your eyes or feels