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hymen, a thin membrane located at the vagina opening. It covers the opening from birth until it’s ruptured during activity. Sexual activity may cause it to tear, but other activities may cause the same thing, such as sports, a fall, and although it’s rare, sometimes inserting a tampon has been known to tear the hyman.
     
    In many cultures today, an intact hymen is demanded in a prospective bride and some fathers watch over their
    daughters, not only for moral issues, but because they can charge a ‘bride-price’ to the groom and his family, no matter if it’s actual money or in goods. A virgin daughter is proof to a groom that his future wife is pure, that he doesn’t have to worry about snickering jokes from friends, but most of all, that his bride is moral and will be a good example as a mother to their future children.
     
    Many years ago in the United States, a virgin was also highly regarded, not for a bride-price, but because of moral issues. Boys were expected to ‘sow wild oats’ before marriage, but women were expected to be pure. Today it’s all changed, but I’m not sure it’s for the better. That’s a personal issue, and one I’ll leave for you to decide.
     
     
    Oral Sex on her - Cunnilingus
     
    Want to make her skin turn inside out? Perform oral sex on her. Most women don’t get enough of it, as men love to get it but are lax about returning the favor. Women love it as much as men, maybe more; other than a finger, it’s about the only way a woman feels direct stimulation since the clitoris is above the vagina. And the combination of a warm, moist mouth and gentle sucking is guaranteed to drive her over the edge.
     
    And that’s another matter - You don’t have to have a tongue long enough to stick in her vagina and come out her nose. If it’s in-depth penetration she wants, she can always use a vibrator. As with a penis, it’s how it’s used rather than size. It’s the technique that matters.
     
    Some women go into raptures with licking, but before you think you need a battery for your tongue, think about a woman poised over your penis. Do you want her to treat it
    as a lollipop? While that may feel good for a while, you eventually want that warm, moist mouth wrapped around
    you. You want her to suck, not lick. A woman’s clitoris is a miniature penis with the same nerve endings. Just like you, suction causes intense pleasure and orgasm, not licking.
     
    Most photos and films of cunnilingus are shot to appeal to men since men purchase the most porn, but they do not accurately portray what gives a woman pleasure. What does give a woman pleasure? Lick, and gently suck until she begins to breathe hard and her fingers curl into fists. Then clamp onto her clit and stay there. You may use your tongue occasionally, but concentrate on gentle suction. Then, when your partner is closer to climax, stay right there and sucks more vigorously. Too many men pull back just when the woman desperately needs him to stay put.
     
    And you don’t have to wear yourself out or feel as if your tongue is going to fall off. Start with perhaps a little licking, sort of a tease as to what’s coming. But open her up. Don’t be bashful. Women like men who know what they’re doing. It goes back to that caveman thing. Lick from the top, along the folds, giving the clit a gentle brush. Don’t neglect that area between the clit and the vagina opening, that stretch of skin that is so sensitive, Pounding it with a tongue or a penis just doesn’t do it. Be gentle - at first. Then, when you know she’s wanting more, zero in on the clit.
     
    Most women’s clitoris gets hard as a knot and shrinks when aroused. I’m not sure why that happens, perhaps the medical books can tell you, but it does happen, so don’t think she’s cooled off and quit. That’s most men’s error. It
    simply means you’re doing your job. Zero in on that little pea and suck. Gently at first, but when she starts pulling your hair by the