time is right. Now the time is right, but I am already married to someone else. Star, what do you think I should do? Do you think I should stay with my husband and have an unhappily ever after? Or do you think I should follow my heart and go with the man that knocks my socks off on a daily?
P.S. One thing I failed to mention is the two guys are best friends.
Sincerely,
Mrs. I Want My Cake & Eat It Too
“Wow, this is one scandalous woman!” I state aloud to myself. I can’t believe it. I have seen all types of scenarios on the “Love Notes” but this is one of the top situations. She has been cheating on her husband the entire time they were dating and married.
“Damn, she is bold and deceptive . Hmm, who could she be?” I think dying to know who the adulterous woman is. I take a sip of my super sweet homemade strawberry milkshake that I made just a few minutes earlier.
I prepare to respond to the email. I try to find the right words to say to help guide this woman with her complicated situation.
To:
[email protected] From :Star Moore
Date : Wednesday, Jun 11, 2014 at 7:45 PM
Subject: Re: Desperate For Advice Housewife
Dear Mrs. I Want My Cake & Eat It Too,
You do have quite the conundrum. I am going to do my best to give you some advice to utilize that will help you make the best decision for yourself. First and foremost, your happiness is very important. However, when we become adults assuming that you are an adult and not a teenager, there are some things that we have to sacrifice to ensure that what we are doing isn’t hurting or affecting the happiness of others. From what you stated, your husband is not a really bad guy. I mean you did say that you love him, although I know that you aren’t in love with him. Now on to the other guy... You have to ask yourself, is it really the thrill of being with someone that you couldn’t fully have and the tantalizing sex or is it that you are truly, utterly, madly and passionately in love with this person that is causes a blaze of fire within you. Sometimes, we overlook what he have because we always think the grass is greener on the other side. Sometimes, the grass is indeed better. Many times it is not. There is also some other factors you have to consider that you didn’t mention. Are there children involved that maybe drastically affected by the choice you choose to make. Young kids especially have a hard time transitioning and older kids may resent you for leaving daddy to be with “Uncle Whomever”. You are in a sticky situation because the man you want to be with, is your husband’s best friend. What you do lies in the two questions that you actually proposed. Are you going to make the decision to stay with your husband and have an unhappily ever after? Or are you going to follow your heart and go with the man that knocks your socks off on a daily? The choice is up to you. Just try to make sure that you are making the best one for ALL parties involved. However, at the end of the day, you have to live with the decision you make for the rest of YOUR life.
Love Conquers All,
Star Moore
I take another sip of my creamy milkshake. Suddenly, I hear a knock at the door. I look through the glass panes encased in my door to see my two best friends smiling faces.
I open the door with glee because I haven’t seen either of them in the past two weeks. I have been so busy with school and work that I haven’t had any time to spend with Taryn and Casha.
“Oh no this will not due.” Taryn states scrutinizing my appearance as she steps inside my foyer.
“You need to take off those drabby clothes. Find one of those hooker style dresses you keep in the back of your closet. Curl your hair and get prepared to go out with Casha and I.” Taryn commands as she rolls her neck. She has always been the bossy one out of the three of us. She is two