nipples, then trail it back down. You can slide one of the bullets inside of you, and let the other one roam. Don’t forget to turn up the intensity on the remote!
39
Three for Two
The sky’s the limit for multiple bullet vibes—actually, three is pretty much the limit, and you typically won’t find one of these with more than three bullets per remote. But you can have a lot of fun with three! There are plenty of configurations for you to try, and with three vibes, there’s more than enough buzz to go around. Try inserting one vibe in your vagina, and then you and your partner hold the remaining two vibes. You can use them on each other, or put on a show! Or, use two bullets to play with him while he pleases you with the other one. You can use one bullet to stimulate his testicles while you stroke up and down his shaft with the other one. If your vibrator’s cords are long enough, let the toys roam, and use one on his shaft while the other two stimulate your clitoris and nipples!
40
Ben Wa Buzz
Ben Wa balls have gained a bit of celebrity after being featured in the scorching BDSM erotica 50 Shades of Grey . This little toy consists of two balls made of plastic or metal, each with a bit of weight to them. Not only are Ben Wa balls fun, they also act like little exercise weights for your kegel muscles, making you feel “tighter” for your partner, and giving you easier, more intense orgasms! Many women like Ben Wa balls because they give you a different sensation from a lot of sex toys: they fill you up and can stimulate your g-spot easily, creating the perfect counterpoint to clitoral stimulation. With vibrating Ben Wa balls, you kick your fun up to the next level! Just like with the bullet vibe, you lube these babies up and slide them in. You don’t need any help to rock out with this toy. One good way to get going is to sit up with your legs closed and rock back and forth: this moves the balls around and helps to stimulate the sensitive nerves of your g-spot on the front wall of your vagina.
41
But Wait, There’s More
Vibrating Ben Wa balls are fun for foreplay and other sexy games, but not as useful if you and your partner want to party together. Luckily, you can totally play with Ben Wa balls with a friend! Once the balls are in place and you’re all warmed up, have him slowly enter you right along with the ben wa balls. Vaginas are plenty stretchy, and you’ll have room for your toy and your man’s monster cock (is he reading over your shoulder? That was for his benefit) if you move slowly. But if you’re uncomfortable, you can also just insert one of the balls, and as long as you go slow, you’ll be golden. Sex with Ben Wa balls is a treat for both partners: as he thrusts, the ball rolls against his shaft while it rubs you the right way, too!
42
Butterfly Buzz
Bullet vibes and other small toys are super useful, but sometimes you want something hands-free, so that your hands can get busy doing something more fun than keeping a vibrator in place! If you want a toy that stays right where you want it, either for partner play or a solo sesh, try out a butterfly vibrator. These come in different makes and models, and are usually held in place with a harness, although some models also include suction, which helps keep the toy in place, and create even more stimulation by increasing blood flow. These toys also have a handy remote, either wireless or with a nice long cord that will let you lay back and enjoy while you adjust the settings.
43
Butterfly Bebop
There are very few vibes that are truly “hands free,” which is what makes butterfly vibrators extra special and really easy to combine with other sexy fun! You can start with oral: with the vibe taking care of your clitoris, he’ll be able to explore where else you like to be stroked. You can finish it there, or if you want penetration, you can jump into your favorite position: the vibe will stay put and give you an electric thrill while he