rather than simply directing movements from a safe position in the rear. This one distinct trait had instilled within his troops a confidence that if Custer, a general, had the nerve to charge into the blazing guns of the enemy then there was no reason to believe that if they followed victory would not be within their grasp.
Edwin Havens of the Seventh Michigan described Custer in a letter dated July 9, 1863: âHe is a glorious fellow, full of energy, quick to plan and bold to execute, and with us has never failed in any attempt he has yet made.â Another proud Wolverine praised: âOur boy-general never says, âGo in, men!â HE says, with that whoop and yell of his, âCome on, boys!â and in we go, you bet.â Captain S. H. Ballard of the Sixth Michigan said: âThe command perfectly idolized Custer. When Custer made a charge, he was the first sabre that struck for he was always ahead.â Another said that Custer âwas not afraid to fight like a private soldier ⦠and that he was ever in front and would never ask them to go where he would not lead.â Lieutenant James Christiancy wrote: âThrough all that sharp and heavy firing the General gave his orders as though conducting a parade or review, so cool and indifferent that he inspired us all with something of his coolness and courage.â
The Michigan Brigade was so impressed that they had whipped Jeb Stuart at Gettysburg that they began to emulate their commander by adopting Custerâs trademark scarlet neckties, which he wore to make himself conspicuous to his troops during a battle.
The young, dashing Boy General with the yellow curls and outlandish uniform certainly made for excellent copy. Newspaper and magazine correspondents saw a rising star, and the Custer legend was born.
Eleven days later, at Falling Waters, Custerâs brigade nipped at Leeâs retreating heels and captured fifteen hundred prisoners and three battle flags. An admiring private from the Fifth Michigan describing the hand-to-hand combat in that affair marveled when he saw Custer âplunge a saber into the belly of a rebel who was trying to kill him. You can guess how bravely soldiers fight for such a general.â Custer continued to distinguish himself throughout 1863, particularly at Culpeper, where he received his lone war woundâshrapnel in the foot.
As Armstrong Custer was gaining national fame as a general and commander of the Michigan Brigade, Libbie Bacon had obeyed her fatherâs wishes and refused to see or accept mail from Custer. That silence would be broken, however, when Annette âNettieâ Humphrey, a friend of Libbieâs and the future wife of Custerâs adjutant Jacob Greene, emerged as a go-between to pass information between the couple.
Libbie gradually fell in love with the gallant General Custer, and at a masquerade ball at the Humphrey house on September 28, 1863, she promised to marry him if he could gain her fatherâs consent. Custer composed the most important letter of his life and asked that he simply be permitted to correspond with Libbie. The judge relentedâno doubt partially due to Custerâs growing fameâand granted Libbie permission to write. Her first letter began: âMy more than friendâat lastâAm I a little glad to write you some of the thoughts I cannot control?â
The romance escalated to the point that Custer wrote to Judge Bacon in late 1863 asking for Libbieâs hand in marriage. The judge replied that he might ponder the matter for weeks or even months. Custer persisted with a frontal assault worthy of any cavalry charge and finally received the judgeâs blessing. He then persuaded Libbie to marry him at the soonest possible moment.
At 8:00 P.M. on February 9, 1864, George Armstrong Custer and Elizabeth Clift Bacon were united in marriage at the First Presbyterian Church, which still stands, in a storybook wedding with a