the graveyard. âLord amercy. Thereâs a bunch of good people in the ground here. And there ought not to be âary another one added.â
âThereâs some more room back there, isnât there?â I asked.
She looked up at me. âSure is, but itâs been a good whileâthirty years or moreâand people just sort of started getting buried at church graveyards, and so that makes this like a little museum. You wouldnât put a new piece of furniture in a museum, would you?â
âI donât guess so.â
âYou hear about how this graveyard got started?â
âNo maâam.â
âWell, it was when my great-granddaddy and grandmother, Walker and Caroline, lived here, and my granddaddy was a little boy, Ross. He was a pistol, that Ross. I remember him. He had a great big mustache when he died, 1918, buried right over there. He was something. He had real light blue eyes which got lighter and lighter and when he died theywere almost white. His nose was sort of up-tilted, which is why he grew that mustache, and when he got old his galluses held up pants so big at the waist he looked like he was standing in a barrel. He was the one lived his whole life in that house that was right there. He remembered when the graveyard got started, too. I heard him talk about it. What happened was a field hand died. This was a cotton field and the field hand dropped dead, and they buried him on the spot. Didnât have no family. Fellow by the name of Pittman. Heâs buried right there. Unmarked. Then somebody else died, somebodyâs baby I think. Most of the ones unmarked, them over there, are infant graves. And thereâs the little rock that says âBorn Dedâ on it. Ross carved that on there. Come here, and Iâll show you.â
We walked over to a small stone, about the size of a football, but flatter, and sure enough, there it was, chipped into it: âBorn Ded.â
âThen of course that tombstone there is Tyree and Loretta and over there is Ross and Helen and his other wife and then there is Walker and Caroline, the ones that buried the field hand. My mama and papa are buried back there in that back row: Dink and Fair. And then all these others.â She shook pine straw off the rake. âOh yes, and Vera. She collected a Confederate pensionâher husband got killed in the Civil War. Canât remember his name. She lived alone, and chickens roosted on her bed. She was a laudanum addick. Would drink that stuff and dance up a storm. She wore a bunch of petticoats and had great big pockets in her aprons. Sheâd walk nine miles to get that laudanum when she was, Lord, over seventy years old, I guess. My, my. Courseyouâre not old enough to be interested in all this yet.â
âOh, yes maâam, Iââ
âThen too, it ainât your blood kin.â
âOh, yes maâam, I am interested,â I said.
I thus found myself looking into the eyes of one of the very backbones and spirits of this marvelous family, which continues even unto todayâwitness Mr. and Mrs. Copeland, Meredith, Noralee, and now Thatcher and meâunabated into the future.
I think about my mother and fatherâs parents and grandparents, buried in large conventional cemeteriesâso unromanticallyâwithout an entire enclave, an entire force as it were, buried all around them. It seems to me that the tradition of being buried here should be renewed. Itâs the most peaceful place imaginable: the pond, the wisteria, the majestic pine trees.
âWhen the house stood over there,â said Aunt Scrap, âright over there, my great-grandma, Caroline, planted that wisteria plant by the back steps. She had seven or eight namesâI used to could say them. Course I wonât born when she planted it, but I do remember when it grew back there, trimmedâbeside the back steps, up a trellis. Then it come up by the pond and