the two pies and leave, but that feeling of being tricked stays with me all night.
I wake up at 4:46âexactlyâalmost every morning now. Sometimes I take a tranquilizer to get back to sleep for a couple of hours but mostly I bolt out of bed as fast as I can,before the anxiety demons rev their engines, ready to mow me down emotionally.
This morning, though, I sit back on a tangle of pillows, with my steaming coffee in a Herend mug with its beautiful gold and deep red design. It better never break; I wonât be able to afford another one. In a short while the rising sun will ricochet off the glass skyscrapers in the distance and my room with turn pale gold in the morning light.
How long will I be able to live here? Bob, my tax attorney and old friend, actually paid an emergency house call the day after the MF debacle and laid out some short-term plans.
âYouâre too traumatized to move,â he advised. âJust assume youâll be staying here and letâs revisit the situation in a few months. I know you. Youâll make money again. Iâm sure of it.â
Bobâs words and confident attitude helped restore in me a scintilla of calm. I was dead certain Iâd have to find somewhere else to liveâa dark, small, porcupine hole of a placeâbut at least now I have some time!
I must sell the little cottages in Florida and the Hamptons as soon as possible and pay back the loans. But I am one of many sellers looking to get rid of property in the middle of a recession. How long will it take for someone to buy them? What if no one does? Then what will I do? Itâs painful to part with places Iâve scraped and painted and furnished and made my own. But I cannot let myself become sentimental. I need money and they have some value.
I command my brain to SNT (Stop Negative Thinking)!This takes an enormous effort of will but itâs something I must do. Otherwise Iâll just get paralyzed by the frightening reality of my situation. And Iâll never leave this bed.
Iâm in a beautiful apartment and Iâve lived a great and interesting life. I admit that I love beautiful thingsâhigh-thread-count sheets, old china, watches, jewelry, Hermès purses, Louboutin red-lipstick-soled shoes. I like expensive French milled soaps, good wines, and white truffles. With long years of steady work, I have been able to afford such things, and theyâve brought me pleasure. I have given extravagant gifts like diamond earrings and even a Rolex watch, and that has brought me pleasure, too. Iâve traveled a lot and loved every minute of it. In this past year, Iâve been to Laos, Cambodia, India, Russia, and most recently to Berlin for my first solo art show. Will I ever be able to explore exotic places again? Probably not.
Negative thinking again! Stop immediately! Self pity, too. Get over it!
I will myself to concentrate on the sun as it begins its magic, and as its rays transform my room I muse about the parts of my life that I am most proud of. About trying to better womenâs lives with the pink ribbon, about giving money to a friendâs daughter to send her through college (no, she never knew it was from me), about secretly paying to have my motherâs memoirs published (by a vanity press, but she never realized it), about the years I spent helping those who cannot read and mentoring retired schoolteachers, about helping friends and even strangers in any way I could.I sit back and wish Iâd done much more. I will do more, I will give more back, I vow, and it is this impulse that finally rouses me out of bed.
Iâve written two blogs for Tina and Iâve been paid for them. I have enough to last for only a few more months but the small check means I can still earn money.
I will need to find a job. But what? But how? Hereâs an idea: set up a lemonade stand on Worth Avenue in Palm Beach and charge a million bucks a glass, save a few dollars
Kit Tunstall, R.E. Saxton