infant, I overslept; she took care of him and didnât go to Sunday school. And I was so glad that she did such a good job. So she said that she would make a deal with us: If she didnât have to go to Sunday school anymore, she would take care of James every Sunday morning. That was an offer I could hardly refuse. So thatâs when she stopped.
âBut Jane became very Jewish again when she married a Catholic boy,â Ginsburg continues. âFirst, she wanted to have a rabbi reassure her that even if her children were baptizedâwhich they were because it was important to my son-in-lawâs Italian-Catholic motherâthat it could still be a Jewish baby. And I thought that would be easy.â Ginsburg shakes her neatly chignoned head. âBut it was very, very hard to find a rabbi who would say that. Ab [Abner] Mikva was my chief judge on the D.C. Circuit Court. His daughter is a rabbi and she said, âNo, I wonât tell her that.ââ
I remark that this must have been very upsetting. âYes,â Ginsburg says with a nod, âbut I said to Jane, âThis woman [the Italian-Catholic mother-in-law] is thinking that if her grandchild isnât baptized,
this childâs soul will
never go to heaven
. So itâs just to put her at ease.ââ
Did it matter to Justice Ginsburg that her children marry Jews? âNo. Jane is married to a very fine man who is perfect for her. And she had anticipated all kinds of difficulties that didnât arise. There was a question of Sunday school and I said, âWait till Georgeâmy son-in-lawâfinds the church that he is going to enroll Paul and Clara in.â And he never didâto this day he hasnât. My granddaughter, who will be thirteen in October, is this summerâfor the second timeâgoing to a Hadassah-run camp on the French side of Lake Geneva. So now she knows more about Judaism than I have forgotten.â
Ginsburg seems comforted by a sense that her grandchildren know whatâs at the heart of their birthright. âI think they have enough of an understanding that, when you are a Jew, the world will look at you that way; and this is a heritage that you can be very proud of. That this small band of people have survived such perils over the centuries. And that the Jews love learning, theyâre the people of the book. So itâs a heritage to be proud of. And then, too, itâs something that you canât escape because the world wonât let you; so itâs a good thing that you can be proud of it.â
So what does it mean to be Jewish without rituals? âThink of how many prominent people in different fields identify themselves proudly as Jews but donât take part in the rituals,â Ginsburg replies. She adds that even without observance, being Jewish still matters greatly to her. âIâll show you one symbol of that which is hereââshe gets upââif you come.â We walk across her office, which is surprisingly ordinaryâno dark paneled walls, inlaid desks, or library lamps. It looks more like a civil service office with gray carpeting, tan puffy leather chairs, and a round glass table (with a stuffed Jiminy Cricket doll sitting on top). The only clue to Ginsburgâs personality is the profusion of family photos propped on her bookshelvesâpictures of son, James, who produces classical music recordings from Chicago; daughter, Jane, who teaches literary and artistic property law at Columbia; the two grandchildren; and of course, the requisite Ginsburg-with-Presidents SeriesâCarter, Clinton, Bush Sr., George W.
She guides me to her main office door, where a gold mezuzah is nailed prominently to its frame. âAt Christmas around here, every door has a wreath,â she explains. âI received this mezuzah from the Shulamith School for Girls in Brooklyn, and itâs a way of saying, âThis is my space, and please