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or something else? Massagers should also reveal their hopes and not despair if their dream scenario is light-years from their subject’s. Try to strike a middle ground, or if none can be found the recipient should get his or her way and promise to return the favor later. Of course, once you’ve begun the massage and are in the thick of things, it’s entirely possible one or both of you might change your mind. That’s fine (and we’ll show you a tactful way to change course later), but still, it helps to air what you’re thinking at the outset so you don’t set yourself up for disappointment.
Does your partner want to kick back and just enjoy the massage without lifting a finger, or would he or she prefer to take on a more active role and touch you, too? For that matter, do you even want to be touched? Some might actually prefer to focus 100 percent of their energy on giving without any distractions. While such a one-way exchange may feel a little strange since most sexual exchanges involve more give-and-take, consider trying it for a refreshing change of pace. You can have fun and even role-play—masseuse/client, maharaja/courtesan—if that allows you to more easily switch gears and embrace this new experience.
What would you both like to wear—and bare? Clothing does tend to get in the way, so if you’re both fine in the buff, great. However, if you’re on the shy side, or have just started dating, or would otherwise like to maintain a little more mystery, then you might wear a bathing suit, pajamas, your stretchy yoga outfit, a sarong, or use what professional masseuses call “draping”—strategically placed bed sheets or towels that cover what needs covering but keep the body free from the constructing confines of clothing.
How long will the massage last? Will there be breaks? Establishing a rough time frame is helpful for you since you can pace yourself accordingly and not get tired. But it’s also beneficial for your partner who might get sleepy or, conversely, start feeling antsy. Knowing the time frame can help ease jitters.
Would your partner like you to use massage oil or lubrication on the genitals? These are not the kinds of things you want to spring (or rather, squirt) on someone unawares. Also ask if your partner has any allergies or is prone to rashes or yeast/urinary tract infections so you can avoid products that might result in a nasty post-massage surprise.
Are there certain areas on the body where your partner would like to receive a little extra attention? Even if as the massager you think the answer’s obvious, ask anyway: You may be surprised to learn your guy loves having his ears rubbed, or that your gal’s knees are her own personal sweet spot. Also ask if there are any areas that are best avoided. Some people are cursed with a ticklish stomach or feet so it would be pure torture to have these spots touched; others might just say that shoulder rubs just don’t do much for them. Identifying these no-go zones clearly ahead of time not only will make for a more personalized, pleasurable massage, but will increase peace of mind, since the recipient won’t have to worry that you may start heading in an undesirable direction.
    STEP 2: SOME PRE-MASSAGE PREP WORK
    Now that we’ve got all that yakking out of the way, you can start setting up shop. Here are a few other things you should take care to do before you dig in.
    Trim/File Your Nails
    Sure, long talons may have a certain sex kitten appeal, but they’ll lose their allure pretty fast once they’re gouging someone’s shoulders. So do your partner a favor and make sure your claws don’t extend more than a millimeter or two beyond your fingertips. If you’re a nail biter, file off any scraggly, gnawed-off edges that might scrape the skin. Ifyour hands are dry, massage oil (particularly coconut oil) will do wonders to soften them. To further sand down any rough patches, make a salt scrub by mixing one teaspoon of salt per one