home.
âHe wanted me to change my job so I could be at home more, but I refused. He reasoned that I had patiently waited for him to do his thing, so he felt he had no right to ask me to give up what I loved. He didnât know it was Salvador that I was loving!â
âCan we get to the two-husbands, two-sets-of-children part?â
âThings were fine for a year or so. Iâd go off to work in Brazil for weeks or months and my husband would be at home doing his thing. One night while we were having dinner, Salvador took a little black box from his pocket, got on one knee and asked me to marry him. When I opened the box, the brilliance of the huge rock stunned me. Without giving it a thought, I said yes.â
âSo Sal baby still didnât know you were married?â
âSalvador still doesnât know Iâm married!â
âOkay, Iâve got to admit, youâve got me curious. Go on.â
âMeanwhile, when I returned to the States the next day, Eric, my husband, welcomed me home with open arms. On our way from the airport we take a different route than usual and when I question him he simply says, âI have a dreamy surprise for you.â He pulls in front of a beautiful house with a huge bow on the front door. At that moment, I knew we belonged together.
âWhen I looked at him, I saw a man who truly loved me and I couldnât bring myself to hurt him. Weâd grown up together. We were both children in adult bodies with big dreams when we met and we had lived those dreams. We belonged together.â
âOkay, so now we have to tell Sal this ainât gonna happen?â
âThat was truly my plan.â Daphne begins to talk faster. âThe six weeks I was at home with my husband were wonderful and so busy we didnât even have time to take a deep breath. The night before I had to return to Brazil he looked at me and said I made him complete and that we were going to fill the house with babies that would grow up to be great leaders.
âWhen I closed the car door I had every intention to break it off with Salvador the minute I landed.â
âSo, since youâre on the line confessing your sins of bigamy, I know that didnât come to pass.â
In a defeated tone, Daphne says, âNo.â
âWhat did happen?â
âWhen I arrived, Salvador was waiting for me as usual, but grinning brighter and broader than I had ever seen. Since it was our custom to have dinner at one of my favorite restaurants, I thought nothing of his taking me there. Once we stepped inside, the place was packed with cheering friends and family. It was an engagement party!â
âI can see things getting a little more complex. Go on.â
âEveryone told me how much they loved me and welcomed me to the family. But when his mother told me that she never thought her Salvador would find a woman to give her grandchildren it ripped my heart out. How could I break the news to them that I wasnât free to marry her son?â
âYou set your jaw, part your lips and begin speaking.â I do nothing to hide my sarcasm.
âI knew I had to do it. But I had to choose the right time. And in a restaurant with a hundred people wasnât the right place.â
âSo why didnât you tell him the minute you were alone?â
âI donât know,â Daphne whispers.
âYeah you do. You saw the bling. You blinginâ in the U.S. and now you blinginâ in Brazil.â I laugh at my own quip. âI like that blinginâ in Brazil!â
âHow dare you pass judgment on me! You make me seem so materialistic.â
âIf the Prada fits, diva!â
âI donât have to take this! Iâm hanging up!â
âNo, youâre not. You love attention. Thatâs your drug of choice. So youâre the wife of a doctor with a government job that takes you to exotic lands and when you get to those exotic