ground floor while I lived upstairs with my studio in the attic above, and we both looked after the small front and back gardens. It was a very successful arrangement.
I had promised to telephone Aunt Primrose about the funeral. She was the last remaining of five sisters, all named after flowers: Violet, Lily, Iris, Primrose and the youngest, Marguerite, my mother, who had been called Daisy all her life. Reggie, Primroseâs husband, was almost stone deaf and she bellowed down the phone at me from sheer habit.
âIâll be there, of course. Reggieâs not up to it, Iâm afraid, so Iâll leave him behind.â
I could see her standing four-square to the draughts in the dilapidated drawing room of their ancient house in Wales, Uncle Reggie slumped in an armchair by the fire, the smelly old spaniels â four of them â flopped insensible on the hearthrug at his slippers.
I said, âIâm starting to try and clear out things here a bit. Is there anything of Maâs youâd like to have?â
âSweet of you to ask, dear. Nothing I can think of at the moment. Weâve got far too much here, as it is. But if you happen to come across any old family photos, Iâd love to see them. From before the Flood, when she and I were young. Donât throw them out.â
I promised not to. âIf I find any, Iâll keep them safe for you. By the way, did Ma ever talk to you about what she got up to in the WAAF during the war?â
âWell, she always told me she had a jolly good time. We all did, you know. Lily and Vi in the WRNS, Iris a Land Girl and me a FANY driving ambulances all over the place. Weâd none of us have missed it for the world. Not the done thing to say so these days, I know, but who cares?â
âDid she ever talk about having a love affair?â
There was a chuckle and the faint clink of ice against glass â an early evening pick-me-up to hand.
âWe
all
had those. Especially Iris. All those haystacks, and the Italian POWs working on the farms. She was very keen on
them
.â
âBut was there somebody special with Ma? Someone she told you about?â
âWell, I seem to remember that there was an American . . . she was mad about him, but I think he was killed in action. She never mentioned him after the war, and, of course, it would have been before she married your father. Dear Vernon, he was always there, you know â waiting hopefully in the wings. Always dotty about Daisy, ever since we were children. Very sweet.â
âDid you ever meet the American?â
âOh, no. Daisy and I hardly saw each other during the war. Too busy doing our own thing. Our leaves hardly ever coincided, and you couldnât get around like now. Journeys took for ever. But we wrote to each other and she mentioned him in her letters.â
âDo you still have any of them, by any chance?â
âLord knows . . . I doubt it, but Iâll have a search, if youâre interested. I canât promise anything, though.â
âDid she happen to tell you his name?â
Another soft clink. âCanât remember, Iâm afraid. Itâs too long ago.â
âWhere she was stationed?â
âSomewhere in Suffolk. A bomber station. Iâve forgotten what it was called. Some funny country name like Little Hogwash or Nether Snoring.â Another clink and a gulp. âWhy all these questions, dear?â
âNothing really. I found an old photo in her desk â of an American bomber crew. I was just curious.â
âWell, the Yanks came over here in force after Pearl Harbor. Thousands of âem. And jolly good fun they were, too. One of them taught me to jitterbug.â Another rich chuckle. âBut that was a long, long time ago. Couldnât do it now, not with my knees.â
I smiled. It was hard to imagine Aunt Primrose ever jitterbugging but I didnât doubt that it