believe that he could get whatever he really wanted. So, true to form, Papaw kept pushing my parents and convincing them that they
had
to make this happen for me.
Finally, Hankâs resolve to permanently avoid this punk Paisley kid started to weaken. Hank made a concession. He told my father that his daughter Denise could play guitar well enough to teach a little kid like me, and maybe I could come over if we wanted to try that. And every now and then he would stop by and see how I was doing. And maybe, just maybe, when I got to a level where I needed a little more than just book learning on the instrument, heâd sit down and show me a few things.
We jumped at the opportunity to get our foot in the Goddard family home, so my dad started bringing me down to their house after school on Tuesdays for a thirty-minute guitar lesson. The first time, my father went off on an errand in town and came right back. Well, it didnât take too long before my dad realized that he didnât need to come back for at least an hour or so, if he didnât just want to wait around. After Hankâs daughter would give me a lesson, Hank himself would casually wander by, take a quick listen, and then sit down and start working with me himself.
Hereâs how my dad remembers things from those days: âSuddenly, it would be around eight oâclock at night, and I would be trying to get Brad home to do his homework. Meanwhile, Hankâs wife is trying to run Brad off because itâs getting late. But even with the clock ticking, you just couldnât break those two up when they started jamming.â
Having a guitar teacher like Hank Goddard would have been more than enough good fortune for any young player in the world. Yet somehow my luck didnât stop there. Almost right away, Hank Goddard became not just my greatest guitar teacher and my musical mentor but my bandleader.
And it all began at that church picnic. I was asked to play a few songs after the way I rocked the house of God with that first performance. By this time, Hank and I were getting to be fast friends, so Iâm sure just to be nice, Hank said, âIâll tell you what, Iâll get Gene Elliott to get his drums back out. We can put a little band together for this picnic.â Gene was a man in his fifties then who hadnât played in a while. âAnd maybe Dick Ward will dust off his old guitar and Tom Berisford can bring his bass, and Iâll play too.â So suddenly Iâm playing the big church picnic with not only my guitar teacher but also these other veteran musiciansâa band of brothers, or rather, a band of grandpas.
We learned ten songs for the church picnicâat least I did, because all these older guys already knew every song in the book, and a few that never made it to the book too. Right from the start, I was just this young whippersnapper trying his best to keep up with these guys. I would sing simple country songs, and Hank would play these ridiculously complicated jazzy instrumentals, like âCherokeeâ or âBirth of the Blues.â
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Suddenly Iâm playing the big church picnic with not only my guitar teacher but also these other veteran musiciansâa band of brothers, or rather, a band of grandpas.
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Hank taught me by example, and that was true onstage and off. Despite his obvious talent as a musician, Hank was the kindest man imaginable. I look back at old videotapes of me playing in the band with Hank, and I still canât believe that he and the guys put up with me. By that time I was playing a cheap Hondo Strat copyâyet another in a series of terrible guitars that I played in the beginning. As much as I would have loved something like an actual Fender or Gibson, we just werenât made of money. Finally, I got a Tokai Strat, and that was as close to the real thing as it got for me in 1985. I didnât get my first actual Fender until high school, I