here she isâtelling me not only WAS she youngâbut she STILL FEELS THAT WAY. I could scarcely breatheâit gave me an attack of claustrophobia. Now I saw her as a young person trapped in the body of an old woman and she seemed to me to be like someone sentenced to life in prison without paroleâlife was going on as usual all around her, but she could not get out of that wrecked cage of a body to which sheâd been consigned forever.
Like The Man in the Iron Mask âonly she was The Woman in the Flabby Bodyâjust as horrifying a fate, in my opinion. Actually worse. At least nobody but the prison staff ever SAW the Man in the Iron Maskâmy Mother, on the other hand, had to go out every day in public and be SEENâIN THAT TERRIBLE BODYâIN THOSE AWFUL OLD LADY CLOTHESâand here she is telling me that she still FEELS like sheâs a teenager. Oh, the horror!
I imagine if I myself had to even walk out in the front YARD in that housedress, with those shoes and that hairâin that BODYâwell, I would just rather be dead and by the quickest, most private means possibleâand then, if you would, please, just cremate the wretched remains on the spot.
Self-satisfied in my all-consuming Teenage Smug, I somehow subconsciously believed that I personally would not EVER age, that MY skin would remain sleek and taut around my ever-lean frame, that MY muscles would always promptly obey whatever command my ever-sharp brain issued and that MY perky tits and ass would ever BE perky. I didnât imagine that the MOM felt any sense of grief or loss at her own condition because, in my mind, it had not changed. It wasnât like she ever once HAD anything like my own exquisite perfection and had somehow allowed it to deteriorateâto me, sheâd always BEEN just as she was NOW. âWhen you got nothinâ, you got nothinâ to loseââseemed apropos.
On the other hand, I had another parentâmy in-house representative of the Doting and Delightfuls (DAD), who always seemed handsome and dashing to meâand so that got me to thinkingâhow did this old lady snag such a PRIZE? He didnât strike me as having a Granny Complex, and yet here he was, blissfully wedded to the hag I saw at the sink. Hmmmm.
And so to the old family albums I went, and for the first time, I actually SAW the people in the photos that did not contain ME. At any past perusals, any photos lacking my graciouspresence were thumbed past quicklyâblah, blah, blah, crowd noise, crowd noise, crowd noiseâahhhâhere we are nowâME, ME, ME!
Suddenly, the young GIRL playing with her dog, trying on a funny hat, making faces for the camera, skiing, sailing, riding horses, smiling ear-to-earâthat young GIRL became real to me. And she was followed closely by the young WOMANâdressed to kill, makeup and hair perfect, posing with one handsome young man after another, until finally there was just One Handsome Young Man over and over in the photosâand I easily recognized HIM as my very own darlinâ Daddy. And there he was, in the Stork Club in New York Cityâgrinning, with his arm around that beautiful young woman. And there he was, bundled up in his Navy peacoat and watch cap, playing in the blinding snow with that same radiant young woman. And there he was, beaming an impossibly broad grin, with his new brideâthat same gorgeous young womanâthe MOM.
Oh. My. God. I now KNEW how she got himâ¦MOM was HOT.
Mom was hot. Mom was hot. MOM! WAS! HOT! Holy shit! Ho-ly SHIT! Iâm talking MOM hereâdo you understand me? MOM! My MOMâTHAT one over thereâfrump woman, the cook, the housekeeper, the rule-maker, killer-of-all-teenage-joyâMOMâwas NOT ALWAYS a Mere Ordinary Mortalâshe USED TO BE HOT!
And thatâs kinda sorta when I knewâif it happened toherâit could happen to me. And isnât Karma just the biggest bitch in