raised eyebrows thrown our way. Suspicions were being tossed toward Gregg with the subtlety of an early â90s Jim Carrey movie.
âWhy do they think that?â I asked. True, my brother was shy, and never had a girlfriend to bring around, but that was rooted in his status as a skinny weirdo who was obsessed with pro wrestling and geography, not in any disinterest in ladies.
Gregg stared across the yard. Pa was seated in a folding chair, looking directly at us. Our grandfather laughed wildly and slapped his knee in obvious delight.
âIâm pretty sure,â Gregg sighed, âthat Pa told everyone Iâm gay.â As the evening wore on, people began quietly asking me how I felt about my brotherâs sexual awakening.
âWell, the thing is,â I told one second cousin, âheâs not gay. Iâm not really sure how that rumor started, but itâs not true.â
âHuh,â my cousin grunted, his Jersey mullet catching the wind. âI donât know.... â
My brother and Pa didnât talk for years after that. It was only after Paâs death that I got Gregg to admit that our grandfatherâs prank was fucking hilarious.
âH e was crazy,â I told my mother. âBut at least he was crazy in a good way.â
âYeah,â she said. âItâs not so bad. You just have to figure out how to be crazy in a good way, too.â
M y greatest moment with Pa came when I was a sophomore in high school. It was that amazing time of year on the East Coast, those three or four days during fall when a cool breeze is already blowing but the sun is still shining, and the leaves have just about fully changed but none have fallen.
I was on the phone in my bedroom, kicking it to a husky freshman named Melissa (who would inevitably turn me down), when I smelled a smoky odor wafting in through my second-floor window. I stuck my head outside and looked around the neighborhood.
All seemed normal. In the middle of the street, Jerry Hubert was competing with Matt Kehoe and Nick Scagliozzi in a fierce
game of wiffle ball. In the background, I could see Pa doing a strange dance in his backyard. Par for the course.
I continued flirting with the chunky apple of my eye. The smoky smell worsened, but I was in the zone, really working a good sophomore-in-high-school game, and didnât pay it any attention until my mom charged up the stairs.
âChris! Chris! Paâs lawn is on fire! â she screamed.
I looked out the window again to see that Paâs dancing had taken a turn for the worse. The kids had stopped playing wiffle ball and were gathered near his fence.
âGo!â my mom said. âYou have to help him!â
I couldnât figure out what my mother meant. His lawn was on fire? That concept made, and still makes, very little sense to me.
âIs everything okay?â I heard Melissaâs distant voice ask. I brought the handset back to my ear and tried to sound as heroic as possible.
âIâll call you back,â I said in a half-whisper. âIâve got to go save my grandpa.â My voice didnât sound even vaguely heroic, as it still hadnât changed by the age of fifteen.
I flew down the steps and charged out the door. I headed straight across Mrs. Burnsâs lawn and vaulted over Paâs rusted chain-link fence in one leap.
Foot-high licks of flame were rising out of my grandfatherâs grass. It had been a hot summer and much of the yard was dead and browned. Pa was trying to stamp the flames away. I needed to get him out of there.
âPa, come on!â I shouted. âWe gotta call the fire department.â
He looked me dead in the eye and replied, âFuck you.â
My jaw dropped. Did my grandfather just say fuck me? I looked at him, breathing heavily, staring me down. He had. He had definitely said fuck me.
âI can handle this,â he continued, before turning around and stamping